May 11, 2007 16:26
Naomi came by today for her monthly visit. She is our DHS case worker. She made the mistake of asking if we had a picture of Dianna, so we had to dig out the pink tub of pictures. We did find a few, but I did not realize how few of her I have. I think that she took some of the ones I had, and I am not sure what has happened to the rest. It was a sad bitter sweet time looking back at the times when she was a good beautiful little child who grew into a beautiful wonderful mother, only to change into a drug addict liar.
I like Naomi. She told me that she is still going to push for that meeting about terminating care so that I can adopt our little monkey. She said that more likely they are going to hold off until David at least gets his psych. eval. I sure hope that all goes well and one day soon this little guy will have a sure place in our life forever and ever. I just hate the idea of things being dragged on and on. I got the address of the prison where David is located. I am going to mail them a letter, so that the person who is in charge of the six month thingy program that he wants to get into gets it. I just cannot think that it would be for anyones best interest for David to get out early. I want him to stay where he is. He tried to kill my daughter, and even his unborn son when he was in Di. SO, in my opinion he is a monster and should stay in jail for a long long time.
She is going to call me on the 17th and let me know how the meeting went.
Kim's kitty had ONE kitten. One big huge marbled looking cat...hmm, must be a bengal, lol. It is so cute. Snickers did not have it so lucky. It sounds like she may have been hurt and we do not know if that is why, but for whatever reason her babies were all a bit small, all four of them. They were born a few days ago. Last night we lost one, this morning another went and now they are all gone. I felt so bad for her. Pearl and her had shared a box. It was so sad. Pearl was nursing all of them sometimes, she loved those babies. When the first few died she took the others away and hid them in my closet. I allowed her to keep her kitten there, whom Kim has named Lucky. Lucky is still there in a doggy bed back in the dark corner of my closet, safe from little hands. Snickers did not seem to be such a devoted mother as her sister. I wonder if there is still time for me to book her on the spay wagon. I think it was going to be down our way in four or five days, and if you pay online it is only forty dollars. I would gladly pay that.
Luis should be home any time now. He usually is here before I am and that is in about an hour from now. The children will have to give up custody of he big tv than, as he will want to watch his novela, lol.
We are already making plans for the party on the 16th of June. Sam wants a lual, ok I do not know how to spell. The hawaian cook out type theme. He wants to buy a Caja De La China, which is a big bbq bos thiny made to roast a pig in. He always gets a bit overboard. It sounds like he wants to make this one a blow out party. Of course there has already been mention of a keg. I am not a beer drinker and do not think I will partake of the keg, but the harder stuff, now that I just may have to sample. I want black jose cuervo. Maybe I will have to buy a bottle just to be sure that I have some then. Emily is going to come, as is Sherry. Sherry is my cousin. She lives but ten minutes or fifteen from me and has never once been to my home. I have to admit that in the three years I have been here I have only been to hers a few times myself, so I am just as guilty as she. She works a lot and is just so busy, same here.
Today is Kim's birthday. They are not going to have a party, as they are saving up all the partying for next month. Kim also declined one and said she would rather get her hair done. She has never had her hair done before profesionally. She is planning a dye, streaks and cut, plus thought she would get her nails done as well. She has been going to the fake and bake three times a week. I hear that she even tried on a skirt yesterday. She said it was pretty but way too short for her and that if she bent over everything would be out there. I told her to just wear some boy shorts under it. That is what I make Jessy do when she wears short skirts. Luis hates short things on the girls, but often they are fine in my opinion, as long as done tastefully. If she wears something to school that I know luis would not like, I just ask her to change before he gets home, bad me.
I gave Kim her gifts yesterday. We got her some pink panties. The girls thought they were gross, as they are thongs. I think they were cute, and pink, Kim's color. We got her some hair ties and a little ceramic tea pot...but the real gift was in the tea pot. I told her that I had wanted to get her twenty four five dollar bills, but since I knew they were heading to the store I wanted to give her the money last night, so she got twenties instead...nope, not twenty four of them, but six, to equal her twenty four fives.
Sam asked me to buy her a cake today, and he will pay me back Friday. We are going to go get an ice cream cake from Dairy Queen. Kim is at her sister's for the day. Her sister came and got her this afternoon, so that she did not have to get up early when Sam went to work to get a ride into town. As soon as Luis or someone is here we will go down and get a cake. The children all want to go now, but I do not want to take Gabe with us, so we will wait.