so for the sake of acting like I'm 8 years old and back in elementary school, today I'm going to post the Facebook Status directed at me, that I didn't even know about at the time of my terrible behaviour? At least I'm 99% sure it's directed at me...as I was the proverbial "she" mentioned...
R is aggravated. Why do I even bother when she is just waiting to steal her away from me again - getting SICK OF THIS BULL#@$*!! 8:51pm - Comment - Like
comments following the status update....
S.H. at 10:08pm February 24
steal who? who are you mad at tell me and I will be mad with you
R.N.C. at 11:19pm February 24
I was supposed to hang out with my best friend tonight for a bit before she went to work, but as usual someone else always manages to ruin the plans that we have. I wouldn't mind but she gets to see her WAY more than I do, especially with me working. Tired of it.
My actual comment on facebook to her;
Me at 11:25am February 26
I didn't know you two had plans...I don't understand how I "ruined" the plans and "stole her away from you again"...I didn't do it on purpose...we could hang out as a tri-pod, we are all friends after-all aren't we?
and the comment I contemplated leaving:
Ruth I apologize if you think that I hide around corners and tap her calls and then when I hear that you've made plans with her, chase her down, put a bag over her head and throw her in my car just to "steal her away"
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That however is not how I do things. If you had called her we could have all hung out, you're always invited, the more the merrier, we've done it before and had a great time... in my opinion anyways... but maybe it is possible that I could have mistaken all of our cheerful bantering, carrying-on together, and bitching about life while sipping on some timmy ho's as a good time, when actually it was terrible... sorry for being none the wiser...
I really did not mean to make you feel as though I "ruin" everything or "steal" her away from you on purpose... I called her because I was driving by her house so she came out and we went for a drive... I haven't seen you since you moved to Edmonton and would love if we all got together, now I feel like you hate me for being friends with our mutual BFF. We're all adults here, so if it is an issue for all 3 of us to get together we could try to co-ordinate bookings for chill time, although that seems a little silly to me, but honestly if there is an issue that arises such as this call us and we can sort it out instead of being angry and stirring things up on facebook. I really didn't mean to upset you by hanging out with her, and I did not write this as an attack on you, just trying to figure things out without stepping on any toes.