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[tyroisupstairs]

My asian/american heritage is by no means something I need to get over...seeing how it will be with me for the rest of my life, but there will come a day when I will no longer feel insecure about it. *sighs* Salt lake city is such a wonderful place, beautiful climate, great fabulous friends, cost of living is great, my neighborhood is great, my

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[serise]

Hi - I added you - hope you don't mind. I'm moving to SLC and really looking forward to it too. I'll be going to school near you - it's called Skin-Works and it's on 2100 S. and about 300 east. Anyway, it will be interesting to see how your life goes - you seem like you're super! And don't be too hard on yourself - there are lots of guys out there - SLC is full of them!

[tyroisupstairs]

aww well I know there are many guys out there for me. I'm smart, entertaining, witty, clever, comedic, cute, have a nice bod, hey I haven't given up on love ;)

Wow you'll be pretty close to where I live. I'll add you back. When are you moving to SLC?

[serise]

I'm moving to SLC at the end of July and I'll probably be living in the Murray or Holladay area. I have a daughter and they have good schools there. I'm excited!!

[ms_smiles]

I am from Seattle. Minorities all the way, especially the neighborhood I lived in. Not until I moved to Salt Lake, however, did I meet such a concentration of half Japanese people. There are at least five that I know. I work with three of them and the others are either their friends or relatives. I know this doesn't have much to do with you but thought you just might get a kick out of it.

[anonymous]

Hey baby, if it makes you feel any better, I'm a big ole whitey and I never even date. :-) You know, I think you and I could both get some play if we were willing to lower our standards, but we shouldn't. And it's no aspersion on us -- it's the fact that young gay men are like teenage girls only more shallow and silly, so really, don't let it get you down. I doubt it has anything to do with your being Asian. I know there are plenty of shallow guys out there who say they could never be attracted to Asians (or blacks, or whites, or whatever their particular race of disinterest is), but that's more a commentary on them. It's cliche, but it's true -- you really wouldn't want to date anyone with that kind of attitude, anyway, so you're not missing out. Just keep your eyes and heart open because there are guys out there who need exactly what you have to offer -- which is a helluva lot!

Dougums

[tyroisupstairs]

aww well thank you doug, that very much means alot to me. true one could lower their standards but eh, a relationship really isn't that necessary in my life, I have a great deal of optimism for the future when guys are slightly more mature and I know much more of who I am and what I can offer. :) but thanks

-James