Life doesn't begin, it already is....
I watched the Oprah show today. Despite my distaste for some of the things that she airs, today caught my attention. IT was a show about bride's at the alter with doubts. Basicly the women were having issues with being married and losing their identity. Which if anyone knows isn't the point of beng married. The psychologist on the show told them to stop living in a dreamworld. They need to show up as an adult and as themselves, totally. It got me to thinking. How well does anyone know me? I know that Bart knows me better than just about anyone. And I know him better than just about anyone. I don't expect him to make drastic changes to make me happy, I'm happy with him. I know that he doesn't think I'm going to change radically when we get married. Just as long as i don't make the house look like a disaster area. HAHA. The entire point of the show was to be honest with yourself and honest with your partner. Which I think is an excelent way to live. I'd rather have the truth, and being lied to would only cause me to lose my trust in anyone. Anyone that knows me knows that I am careful about what I believe, too many people have lied to me. A sad fact, and yet I still socialize with people. atleast I'm hopeful that people aren't all bad.