Identity crisis!

[twilighter1991]

Gasp! I recently came to the realization that I might be BI. This is very confusing...I don't know what I am anymore. I've never dated a girl, as I always thought it would be akward, but every relationship with a guy that I've ever had has failed.  I don't even know how to ask a girl out! And I'm part of a church that frowns on anything other than

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[lys_chan_83]

Dear, RELAX! Please, you re going to explode if you keep going like that. So, breathe deep, and let it go counting from ten to zero. Better now? Good. You think you are bi? So? What's the problem with it. You are hurting someone, or yourself over it? (I mean phisically, when you have an epiphany, It can hurt emotionally, a lot). So enjoy yourself. Want to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend, it's totally your business, if you are happy, or looking for haappiness, nobody should try to change that.
I'm not even going to start with religion, I'm happily agnostic.
Humans tends to label everything, to make it accesible to their minds, which cannot see the big picture. In my country labels are not as notorious as in other countries, so I cannot say much, but I think that one should live their live freely, (unless you are seriously hurting someone else -or yourself-; In that case, you do have issues.) And labels just puts you in a figurative cage. They don't go well with my way of thinking.
Again, try to take it easy on yourself. Believe me, I went through all that when my brother told me he was gay. I was a little surprised, but I love him, and he is happy. That's all I need. I think the people who love you feels the same. And, please, don't take your sexuality as a flaw, it's not.

[twilighter1991]

I know, That's what I was trying to say. My family raised me to be accepting of every one. I actually worte a poem (Its in my album, the title is Teenage Complications) where a line is "Lick the lable and dress the part"