Looking back at my 2009
2009 has been a pretty crazy year for me, as most part of it was spent focusing on my career.
I started the year in a new company barely out of the probation period. Went through a lot of hardships in that job, both mentally and physically, though I learned a lot in the process. Was unhappy with the work environment though despite having made a few friends, and an accumulation of many undesired circumstances caused me to suffer a stretch of insomnia, which ended up putting a lot of strain on my health. In the end I weighed the pros and cons and realised that job was not for me. Took the plunge to look for another job despite the bad economy, and was happy to have had a good agent who helped me find a good job.
So I end 2009 the way I ended 2008, starting afresh at another company. Despite a totally different job scope, the environment is much friendlier, and this makes work much more enjoyable despite the stress level. And of course I have made some more new friends in the process, which have really helped made my integration into the new workplace so much easier.
Hubba has really been great, always encouraging me and helping me to relieve the building amount of tension that I have, especially that experienced from the previous job. When he realised that my mental and physical health was greatly deteriorating, he pretty much encouraged me and supported my decision to change jobs. Although my current job puts him in a difficult position due to the nature of our jobs, he doesn't make a fuss out of things, knowing that I'm much happier in my present position. Marriage has also been pretty awesome, now that we have hit our 4th year of marriage and been together for a decade! In spite of our differences, we have learn to come to a consensus and respect each other for whatever decisions either of us make. Perhaps time has had a hand in this aspect, as we have matured through the years and learned to be more level-headed whenever we need to resolve our differences, if any.
Family-wise, they have really been terrific. Despite the typical ups-and-downs that every family goes through, we weathered through most of the issues. Pops has really been great, being a friend whenever I needed one, and at the same a dad, whenever I needed advice. Mumsy will always been the same, always a supportive mother, constantly reminding me of having to be responsible and accountable, and being my fashion guru whenever I badly need a wardrobe change.
The evolution of Facebook has made keeping in touch with friends so much easier. I have been able to keep in touch with many of mine through the ease of such technology, re-connect with others that I've lost touch with for the longest possible time and make new ones along the way. Now, with a more regular 9 - 5 job, I've been trying my darnest to meet up with my friends more regularly, but sad to say, this workaholic has really got to work harder at this aspect, coz there's still so many people that I've yet to meet up with, despite repeated attempts. This is one resolution I have to continue working on next year definitely.
Last but not least, I really am thankful to have a few animals in my life; my favourite being my ever faithful furry pal, Kenshin. Although I see him less often now than ever, I still am thankful that I have him in my life to help me de-stress whenever venting my frustrations do not work. It's the magic with animals; just one look in their eyes and everything else is forgotten. Be it walking side by side enjoying the peace and tranquility of nature or enjoying the crazy fun of playing tug or catch, the stress of everyday life is completely obliterated when I'm with him. Of course other than him, I have to remember the other pets, Scully, Maggie and Biscuit from my husband's side, who never fail to entertain me with their antics whenever we pop by at my in-law's for dinner. However, we sadly lost Biscuit last month to suspected lymphoma, after his courageous attempts to fight against the disease. Biscuit will always live on in our minds as the unique cat with dog-like behaviour.
With this long post, I wrap up my 2009 and look forward to a better year ahead in 2010. Happy New Year to everyone, and let's go party tonight to usher in 2010!
I started the year in a new company barely out of the probation period. Went through a lot of hardships in that job, both mentally and physically, though I learned a lot in the process. Was unhappy with the work environment though despite having made a few friends, and an accumulation of many undesired circumstances caused me to suffer a stretch of insomnia, which ended up putting a lot of strain on my health. In the end I weighed the pros and cons and realised that job was not for me. Took the plunge to look for another job despite the bad economy, and was happy to have had a good agent who helped me find a good job.
So I end 2009 the way I ended 2008, starting afresh at another company. Despite a totally different job scope, the environment is much friendlier, and this makes work much more enjoyable despite the stress level. And of course I have made some more new friends in the process, which have really helped made my integration into the new workplace so much easier.
Hubba has really been great, always encouraging me and helping me to relieve the building amount of tension that I have, especially that experienced from the previous job. When he realised that my mental and physical health was greatly deteriorating, he pretty much encouraged me and supported my decision to change jobs. Although my current job puts him in a difficult position due to the nature of our jobs, he doesn't make a fuss out of things, knowing that I'm much happier in my present position. Marriage has also been pretty awesome, now that we have hit our 4th year of marriage and been together for a decade! In spite of our differences, we have learn to come to a consensus and respect each other for whatever decisions either of us make. Perhaps time has had a hand in this aspect, as we have matured through the years and learned to be more level-headed whenever we need to resolve our differences, if any.
Family-wise, they have really been terrific. Despite the typical ups-and-downs that every family goes through, we weathered through most of the issues. Pops has really been great, being a friend whenever I needed one, and at the same a dad, whenever I needed advice. Mumsy will always been the same, always a supportive mother, constantly reminding me of having to be responsible and accountable, and being my fashion guru whenever I badly need a wardrobe change.
The evolution of Facebook has made keeping in touch with friends so much easier. I have been able to keep in touch with many of mine through the ease of such technology, re-connect with others that I've lost touch with for the longest possible time and make new ones along the way. Now, with a more regular 9 - 5 job, I've been trying my darnest to meet up with my friends more regularly, but sad to say, this workaholic has really got to work harder at this aspect, coz there's still so many people that I've yet to meet up with, despite repeated attempts. This is one resolution I have to continue working on next year definitely.
Last but not least, I really am thankful to have a few animals in my life; my favourite being my ever faithful furry pal, Kenshin. Although I see him less often now than ever, I still am thankful that I have him in my life to help me de-stress whenever venting my frustrations do not work. It's the magic with animals; just one look in their eyes and everything else is forgotten. Be it walking side by side enjoying the peace and tranquility of nature or enjoying the crazy fun of playing tug or catch, the stress of everyday life is completely obliterated when I'm with him. Of course other than him, I have to remember the other pets, Scully, Maggie and Biscuit from my husband's side, who never fail to entertain me with their antics whenever we pop by at my in-law's for dinner. However, we sadly lost Biscuit last month to suspected lymphoma, after his courageous attempts to fight against the disease. Biscuit will always live on in our minds as the unique cat with dog-like behaviour.
With this long post, I wrap up my 2009 and look forward to a better year ahead in 2010. Happy New Year to everyone, and let's go party tonight to usher in 2010!