So many things I haven't gotten around to posting yet. But I'll start with this question:
Not that I expect anyone to actually feel GOOD about Ianto's death, but you would feel BETTER about it if there had been more hot and heavy stuff (kissing, petting, sex) between Jack and Ianto? As opposed to what we got, which was a lot of Ianto angsting over the relationship and people's judgements about his sexuality?
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