Diary of a Tokyo hostess
dearmisterecho will love these juicy stories...
Here's more about the world of host and hostess clubs in Asia. I sometimes joke that I should have tried to work for a Taipei host club when I worked in Taiwan.
Diary of a Tokyo hostess (Salon.com):
I worked as a modern-style geisha and learned how to fake being in love, but after becoming addicted to the attention, I learned that the money wasn't worth destroying my soul.
By Cynthia Gralla
July 4, 2001 | I'm studying Japanese literature in graduate school at Berkeley, and over the past few years I've gone back and forth to Tokyo half a dozen times, to study the language, literature or dance. I hostessed for the first time in the summer of 1999, when I was in Tokyo on a fellowship to study Japanese.
Having completed my first year at grad school in the high-rent Bay Area, I needed to make some money, and I wanted to improve my spoken Japanese. But even more than that, I was lured into the job by years spent reading literature set in Tokyo's "ukiyo," or floating world -- that neon-lit funhouse of desire inhabited by geisha, politicians, business tycoons, entertainers, thwarted lovers who have decided to commit double suicide (a favorite, idealized topic of Japanese literature) and other would-be romantics. During earlier stints in Japan as an exchange student, I had heard stories from friends about the money to be made and the absurdity to be witnessed in the world of the modern geisha.
Part 1: "Love" for hire
Part 2: Starting at the bottom
Part 3: Fictional devotion
Part 4: Believing in fairy tales
Part 5: Special arrangements
Part 6: Flirting with danger
Part 7: Illusory passions
Here's more about the world of host and hostess clubs in Asia. I sometimes joke that I should have tried to work for a Taipei host club when I worked in Taiwan.
Diary of a Tokyo hostess (Salon.com):
I worked as a modern-style geisha and learned how to fake being in love, but after becoming addicted to the attention, I learned that the money wasn't worth destroying my soul.
By Cynthia Gralla
July 4, 2001 | I'm studying Japanese literature in graduate school at Berkeley, and over the past few years I've gone back and forth to Tokyo half a dozen times, to study the language, literature or dance. I hostessed for the first time in the summer of 1999, when I was in Tokyo on a fellowship to study Japanese.
Having completed my first year at grad school in the high-rent Bay Area, I needed to make some money, and I wanted to improve my spoken Japanese. But even more than that, I was lured into the job by years spent reading literature set in Tokyo's "ukiyo," or floating world -- that neon-lit funhouse of desire inhabited by geisha, politicians, business tycoons, entertainers, thwarted lovers who have decided to commit double suicide (a favorite, idealized topic of Japanese literature) and other would-be romantics. During earlier stints in Japan as an exchange student, I had heard stories from friends about the money to be made and the absurdity to be witnessed in the world of the modern geisha.
Part 1: "Love" for hire
Part 2: Starting at the bottom
Part 3: Fictional devotion
Part 4: Believing in fairy tales
Part 5: Special arrangements
Part 6: Flirting with danger
Part 7: Illusory passions