Mar 20, 2006 16:04
So I have developed a new complex: When I really want something to work out I over nourish it. Relationships, Friends, Plants, Animals. Everything. And then I see that I'm doing this and I try to back pedal, which is only awkward and makes thing worse. The fact that I am a frequent victim of mouth vomit doesn't help. I know silence is powerful but it definitely makes me somewhat uncomfortable.
To quote
" Uncomfortable silences.
Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about
bull... in order to be comfortable?"
Maybe one day I will understand the power of silence or at least be able to say the right thing instead of just the thing that they want to hear.