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[tigerlofu]

So, it has come to my attention that there has been some rumors about me and the rest of D4 lately. The rumor I am talking about is that we were exclusive and we were going to have a private senior banquet with us and a few other other people. From what I have been able to gather, this rumor came from an over heard conversation at the potluck

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[tigerlofu]

Well, then we have different ideas of what a rumor is, I am operating with the definition from the dictionary. Also nowhere in my post did I imply malicious intent or even any deliberate intent at all. I said it was a misunderstanding. As for getting hold of me, I know you have my aim (which, admittedly I might be slow on due to being AFK), both my emails are easy to find and as you said it is a short walk from the library to the friedman.

Well, the way I study I take very short breaks, to go get a cup of coffee or check my email or something. In my experience when ever I go to the library I tend to stay for a minimum of an hour and then it is hard to get back in the groove of studying. In fact it is hard to get back in the groove every time I leave my chair for too long, inconvinient as fuck, but that is how I function when I study. I am not saying I have not been avoiding the library this year, I have, but my reasons for doing so were related to studying. I am well aware that there are things I could have done do not feel as left out, I was well aware of them as things were going on. But I chose not to, as I was focusing on actually getting good grades.

And yes the planning thing isn't new, I know, and it has always bothered the fuck out of me.

[ryelle33]

To be honest, the other reason I hesitated asking you outright what was meant was that I felt awkward. I mean, what if it had been true? That would've been an awesome conversation. So it was easier to ask people I thought knew you better. Which is how that started.
Although I probably would feel significantly less awkward if I'd talked to you more throughout the year. And I probably wouldn't've misinterpreted it in the first place.

Again, I'm sorry you got hurt, but it was a misunderstanding. We've both acknowledged this.

Now it sounds like you chose not participate in anything. If that's the case, you can't complain about not being included. Like I've been saying, that's not how things work.

[tigerlofu]

Well, Jayke asked Talia weeks ago, and was told that we weren't planning our own banquet, or planning on not going to the ssffs one. In fact we were confused where this strange (to us) idea came from. We thought that was the end of it and we didn't realize that people were still upset about it. We didn't even at the time know that multiple people were upset about this. Therefore we assumed that it was just a small misunderstanding and were surprised when it came up again recently.

And no, I did not say I chose not to participate in anything. I have in fact been doing social activities with several ssffs people (other than the ones I live with) all year. We have organized craft nights here that were open to all of ssffs, but we stopped doing them after only one or two people showed up to them and they were the people who visited us anyway.