Okay! I went ahead and set up one of those
damn wedding websites. It's actually pretty convenient though, no joke.
I put this up on FB as well, because I know a lot of people will want to know when/where it is and see the wedding picture porn. I did have to put up a disclaimer, letting people know that just having the info on the wedding doesn't mean that they're invited. There's a few family members I have added on FB that aren't invited, so I had to let that be known. Plus, I know that a ton of people from work really want to come, but I definitely can't have all of them come.
However, I have seriously considered inviting the group I work with (well, most of them) and their significant others (OMG ALICIA YOU CAN MAYBE COME YAY!). I don't know though. I'm trying to keep from creating a lot of butthurt, which I know is unavoidable. But at least I can say I tried, right?