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[thott123]

im relaly worried about tim... i honestly never would have wrote that other entry about being happy he went to rehab if i knew he'd come back like this... on the inside i just want to cry... he is lifeless... REHAB SUCKS!!!! NEVER GO!!!! they fucking brainwash you and make you feel like there is no hope for your life. tim has no emotion at all

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[branbranmb]

Tim just got back. He has been going through so much these past couple of months. Maybe he isn't emotionally dead, but emotionally exhausted. He might just need a little bit of time now. I would have been more worried if he would have came back unaffected at all.

But, I know it has to be hard to watch a good friend go through all this. Don't give up on him yet (by thinking the old Tim is gone) because that won't do anything for him but add more pressure. Just like his parents not trusting him. And don't try to push him into acting like old Tim... because its too early.

He has to have time to ... I guess process....(?) everything that he has gone through. I'm sure after a while good ol' Tim will be back. Right now he needs his friends there to support him no matter how different he acts for the time being. I'm not saying to tell him its a good idea to go in the army, because God... thats a horrible idea. Hopefully he'll come to his senses before that happens!

Now, if its been like a month and there is NO progress, then start to worry. But he just went through so much shit, that most of us haven't... so its hard to understand exactly why he is acting like this.

Give him time, I'm sure good ol' Tim will be back.

:-)