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[theshifty]

Do you think it's possible to have a bestfriend of the opposite sex, be JUST your bestfriend

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[_welaughindoors]

I think no matter what, someone will have 'more than friend' feelings for the other person... for at least a short time.
<3

[theshifty]

You think so?

You're probably right, it's just hard to think of him as anything more than my bestfriend, at least right now, ya know?

[_welaughindoors]

I know what you mean <3

[tabi_cat]

my best friend is a guy. i love him to pieces. he is like my brother...but cooler..

and we are definately just friends.

however...i did have a slight crush on him a while ago. but...nothing happened..

so we are still best friends, nothing more, and i am happy about that.

[theshifty]

so here's what im coming to conclude

it is possible to just be friends

but someone will end up having feelings for the otehr at one point in time (like previously stated above)

[tabi_cat]

yeah..basically...it really sucks...but i am glad he is my friend....so yeah..

[theshifty]

have you ever ran into like jealousy from either one of you if the other has a boy/girlfriend?

how does that work out?

[shimmerxshimmer]

it is very possible. all thruout my life i've had a male just friend. my teacher told me and my friend rush that we were going to go to prom together and shit. no we just get along cuz we're both really alike. we made out once in the begining of junior year for like 3 seconds but it was awkward and funny and stupid and we never did that again. and its like hes your best friend you don't want to jump his bones or get him flowers or whatever the fuck you do you know its like you just wanna hang out with him and have him hook you up with his friends and vice versa. its just a FRIEND. that is all. people who say you can't are just lame and stupid and assholes

[theshifty]

yes, that made INCREDIBLE sense

this is why i heart you shauna

you're like my wise old turtle...or something

[shimmerxshimmer]

the turtle won the race nigga