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Last night I was talking to this guy that I had just meet and somehow we got on the subject of relationships, and I put forth what I consider a pretty obvious theory: in order for a relationship to really work for that long the member need to have similar amounts of self confidence. The exact amount doesn't matter, as long as it's comparable. This makes o much sense to me and I can't think of any examples to disprove this.
He treated it like it was the biggest epiphany ever. So I want to know, is it really as obvious as I seem to think? Am I completely wrong? I want input.