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So, I went on a date last weekend with this guy. And I was really excited about the date and was so excited to hang out with him again. He was on a business trip this past week, so we didn't talk. Today, I decided to send him a text to say hi and after a little back and forth, I suggested that we hang out again this week if he wasn't on another business trip. He said he was in town and then mentioned something about his cell phone freaking out yesterday. An hour later I realized he had not agreed to hanging out again, so I sent this text message:
"Am I right in assuming that because you didn't agree that we should hang out this week that you don't want to? If that's the case, I'd rather know than wonder."
I know, I'm impressed with myself as well. I'm becoming more and more bold, honest, and assertive.
Oh, his response:
"Well, I met another girl and just went on our third date. It is going well and want to play this one out."
How can you be upset with that? You can't be. It's honest. Completely and totally honest, which is exactly what I asked for. So, my response to him:
"It's okay. I apprecaite the honestly. Really, I do. :) I hope it works out for you! Give me a call if it doesn't (but really, I'm thinking good thoughts for you)."
It's sincere. That's not to say that I am not disappointed, because I thought we really hit it off last week. But it's okay. Just not right today. Oh well. Moving on.
"Am I right in assuming that because you didn't agree that we should hang out this week that you don't want to? If that's the case, I'd rather know than wonder."
I know, I'm impressed with myself as well. I'm becoming more and more bold, honest, and assertive.
Oh, his response:
"Well, I met another girl and just went on our third date. It is going well and want to play this one out."
How can you be upset with that? You can't be. It's honest. Completely and totally honest, which is exactly what I asked for. So, my response to him:
"It's okay. I apprecaite the honestly. Really, I do. :) I hope it works out for you! Give me a call if it doesn't (but really, I'm thinking good thoughts for you)."
It's sincere. That's not to say that I am not disappointed, because I thought we really hit it off last week. But it's okay. Just not right today. Oh well. Moving on.