in addition to the first three
fourthly. i tend to be very low drama, seemingly anyway. i'm not one to start an army of friends in order to turn them against another. i tend to keep serious arguments as well as petty ones between me and whomever else is involved rather than running off and telling everyone in order to convert them in someway to my 'side'. i like to let things work themselves out as it seems to be inevitable. if we are friends enough it'll all resolve itself eventually without the urgings of other people.***
fifthly(?). this kind of relates back to number four, but i can basically keep a secret. however this doesn't really affect anything as people tend not to confide in me all too much. i think my seemingly insincere and sarcastic self may be the cause of this. i think i've put people off by being kind of a sarcastic bitch and thus people tend not to be so quick to trust me. anyways, this fifth one is basically irrelevant as i can keep secrets, but no one tells me any so there's no evidence that this makes people like me.
***on another, unrelated, note this isn't always the case. sometimes two people are willed apart because the friendship is not entirely healthy. one of the two 'friends' has to be a psychic vampire of sorts and draining the other and wearing them out. but then again, sometimes both parties are at fault and sometimes it's just me fucking up. anyways, such friendships are better to end. you tend to know that yr better apart AFTER you've experienced this new distance. generally the party who initially decided upon the 'breakup' will suffer some sort of bitter retaliation as most people (those people often being made up of teenage girls who are mostly thriving and fueled by the drama mentioned at the start, which i tend to lack) are incredibly vindictive, i have noticed. girls are intense, they're vicious. they'll wear you out and suck you dry, but most girls have many great qualities so feel free to disregard those assumptions just made by me in the last two sentences.
fifthly(?). this kind of relates back to number four, but i can basically keep a secret. however this doesn't really affect anything as people tend not to confide in me all too much. i think my seemingly insincere and sarcastic self may be the cause of this. i think i've put people off by being kind of a sarcastic bitch and thus people tend not to be so quick to trust me. anyways, this fifth one is basically irrelevant as i can keep secrets, but no one tells me any so there's no evidence that this makes people like me.
***on another, unrelated, note this isn't always the case. sometimes two people are willed apart because the friendship is not entirely healthy. one of the two 'friends' has to be a psychic vampire of sorts and draining the other and wearing them out. but then again, sometimes both parties are at fault and sometimes it's just me fucking up. anyways, such friendships are better to end. you tend to know that yr better apart AFTER you've experienced this new distance. generally the party who initially decided upon the 'breakup' will suffer some sort of bitter retaliation as most people (those people often being made up of teenage girls who are mostly thriving and fueled by the drama mentioned at the start, which i tend to lack) are incredibly vindictive, i have noticed. girls are intense, they're vicious. they'll wear you out and suck you dry, but most girls have many great qualities so feel free to disregard those assumptions just made by me in the last two sentences.