Apr 22, 2005 20:32
just a convo i had about a good friend... if you know him, youll know who its about. and if you dont, yeah, i feel sorry for him too...
thejodster27: i went to ~s today
MouseSNdaHouse: really?
MouseSNdaHouse: whatd you do? get your tat done?
thejodster27: yeah to get my tatoo darker
thejodster27: yeah but he couldnt finish
thejodster27: bc his crazy mom came home
thejodster27: and started yelling to nobody in the living room
thejodster27: screaming the f bomb and everything
thejodster27: poor ~ was so embarrasssed
thejodster27: so i was like "hey im just gonna get out of here"
thejodster27: but then before i left his stepdad came home and started to argue with his mom
thejodster27: about ~ living there
thejodster27: so he must have felt like total shit
thejodster27: so i said "hey, how about you come with me and we can hang out"
thejodster27: he said "and do what"
thejodster27: and i said "anything but listen to your parents argue about you"
MouseSNdaHouse: oh god, i really feel for him.
thejodster27: so he came over to my house and i fed him (lol he said hes only had a sandwich in 2 days- poor boy)
thejodster27: he came with me to pick up rhonda- which took like an hour bc her bus was late
thejodster27: and then we went to a few restaurants to fill out apps
thejodster27: but only had time to go to applebees and pepins
thejodster27: bc it was like 5 by the time we got started
thejodster27: and then i went to a family dinner at po folks at 6
thejodster27: lol- po folks, i know- ghetto
thejodster27: lol
thejodster27: and around nine- when my friend kathy gets out of work- im going to go see "a lot like love" with her and my other girl amber
MouseSNdaHouse: god i think if i was him i would have run away by now. he's much stronger than me
thejodster27: lol so now that you know my life story... how was your day?
thejodster27: i think his self esteem and self worth will skyrocket when he gets away from that cunt
thejodster27: bc before his stepdad got home, she saw that he had a friend over- but they still started yelling anyway
thejodster27: and he was soooooooo embarrassed
thejodster27: i was pissed for him
thejodster27: it was bad- they were screaming loud enough for neighbors to hear
MouseSNdaHouse: your stronger than me too i prolly woulda started crying for him
thejodster27: lol i was pissed for him- but then again im used to yelling bc my dad used to have a really short fuse and would scream and throw shit
thejodster27: god jordan... i wanted to go in there and sock her in the face
thejodster27: HARD
thejodster27: especially since she and his stepdad were arguing about him living there- his stepdad said he needs to leave...
thejodster27: and his mom was like "hes my son!! im not hurting my son like that! i dont want to alienate my boy!"
thejodster27: i was so pissed bc it was such an act- if she cared so goddamn much about ~ she would be involved with him and talk to him about college and pay his medical bills and BE A FUCKING MOM
MouseSNdaHouse: that used to happen at one of my really good friends house, her dad and stepmom would get home at like the middle of the night and scream the most terrible words you ever heard at eachother and we both would pretend we were asleep because i knew she was embarrassed and didnt want to say anything
MouseSNdaHouse: and it made me so sad i would cry for her because she deserved so much better
thejodster27: yeah... i wish i could have done that today- i felt so bad bc i could tell he was humiliated
thejodster27: but i just squeezed his knee and told him that my dad used to do the same thing
MouseSNdaHouse: it's the same for ~. i think i might know what i feel for him now--i love him...as a friend, sometimes friendships go deeper than relationships. and i really care about him and would try to do anything for him to make him happy
MouseSNdaHouse: ya know
thejodster27: and then after we left i cheered him up by telling funny stories about how my dad used to be crazy and throw plates and shit- not really funny, but you know how i can kinda impersonate ppl and its funny
thejodster27: i totally agree.... i found myself talking about him at dinner with my family... and i admire him a lot- mostly for his intelligence but also for his (i know this is corny) strength for dealing with his mom
MouseSNdaHouse: me and my mom talked about him at olive garden tonight
MouseSNdaHouse: alot
thejodster27: my dad was sad when i told him about how fucking genius ~ is... bc if ~ had been raised in an environment like i was- always being challenged and encouraged- he would be at harvard today, no doubt
MouseSNdaHouse: my mom and i talked about the same exact thing
MouseSNdaHouse: thats kinda funny
thejodster27: i find myself acting as champion for him, you know? like im always telling ppl about "this really smart and funny guy who got screwed over by his bitchy mom"
thejodster27: yeah
thejodster27: oh but good news!!!!! :-D
thejodster27: really good news
thejodster27: :-D^10
MouseSNdaHouse: ??
thejodster27: i asked ~ if hed thought about the college options id asked him about... and i figured he would say "im just going to go to SPC" but he said hes going to apply to UCF!!!
thejodster27: yay!
thejodster27: it was really sweet too.... he thanked me for caring about him and asking him what he wanted to do and encouraging him to go to college.... its sad bc he said nobody- i mean NOBODY- else does that
thejodster27: EVER