Note: Don't read if you don't want to hear semi-whiny ramblings about the aftermath of a car crash. I just need to let this out somewhere, why not here?
Man, near-death experiences happen all the time when you're driving. Try to get past it, because if you let it get to you, it'll really just make you paranoid and probably a worse driver (counter-intuitive, I know, but trust me). I'm a little surprised you haven't had one sooner. I've been in one accident, but I've also fallen asleep at the wheel for a second, and been forced (to avoid getting smashed by a much bigger car) to take a turn too fast, losing control for a second and almost flipping over into a fairly deep ditch -- amongst other incidents that weren't so harrowing but were almost bad. The accident had Katie in the car; when I fell asleep, I ran a stop sign right outside an elementary school; and flipping over, it was very late at night and I probably wouldn't have been found for awhile if something happened, so thank God no one else was there to have gotten hurt.
As for the girlfriend, just try to work around her schedule if you're happy with just being with her and with her being happy. That's what I'm trying to do with Katie, though I won't ever tell her because she won't understand that that's what makes me happy. Try to be as understanding as you can, or at least come off like it if you don't really understand. The way I see it, not understanding is your problem, not hers.
Thanks, BV. That's pretty much what my grandfather and my dad told me; to get right back on the horse.
And I think things will work out between me and Shauna. I can deal with seeing her less and all, I was just worried taking a break meant temporarily ending the relationship.
As for the girlfriend, just try to work around her schedule if you're happy with just being with her and with her being happy. That's what I'm trying to do with Katie, though I won't ever tell her because she won't understand that that's what makes me happy. Try to be as understanding as you can, or at least come off like it if you don't really understand. The way I see it, not understanding is your problem, not hers.
Good luck, yeah?
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And I think things will work out between me and Shauna. I can deal with seeing her less and all, I was just worried taking a break meant temporarily ending the relationship.
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