Run Away with Me?

[that_chick13]

I think I should sell my lolita wardrobe and get out of the fashion for good. I feel like I'm being selfish and wasteful when I buy new clothes or any lolita accessories. I don't feel pretty anymore either, at least not in the way that I used to feel when I dress up. Although, I am still in love with the aesthetic of lolita and fascinated by j-

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[evedestroys]

: D I hope this is not a long winded response.

Okay, I texted you about this but seriously....you are one of the most beautiful lolitas I know!!!! I love your style and when you dress in it you look so natural. It's just like it was meant for you....anyways I'll support whatever you wanna do because first and foremost we're friends but just felt like voicing my opinion...

In regards to traveling, as I said I don't feel you really have to choose one or the other. You just need to budget wisely. Perhaps try and find other sources of income as well. You're so young, so don't feel like if you don't do it NOW it won't ever happen. I honestly think (based on seeing people around me) it's easier to travel as an adult than as a young'un like you. Having a stable job is important.....at least to be able to have something to depend on....or to use it to save a bunch and move somewhere. I agree with lotusx about how running away doesn't usually solve the problem. Trust me I've been there. In the past few years I have lived more place than I wish to say....and even though it was awesome seeing new places and meeting new people, it sucked not having ties to anyone or having something or someone to come home to....be it family, friends, whatever. Perhaps it'd help a lot if you moved out on your own and got a place with friends. It was honestly the best thing I've done. The freedom I felt (even though I was sort of broke) was amazing. I finally had my place in the world where I was my own boss. Where no one could bother me. Where I could escape to if I needed to. : D

Lastly....books...hmmmhmmhmmhm.....I am currently reading A Song Of Ice And Fire and finding it truly amazing. Also, even though I'm not THAT big of a Stephen King fan....The Dark Tower series is most definitely worth reading : D Those are both fantasy books though....my favorite genre.

[that_chick13]

Thanks for your support^^ I'll hold off on selling my things until I'm ready to travel and I'll do my best to budget. Hopefully I can find a second job over the summer too.

[that_chick13]

Oh, and I love the Dark Tower series. I read them when they first came out and I loved them.