Thus far, we have barely spoken because I'm not quite sure what to say to you. You said your reasons for sending the mass e-mail were to hurt Xiomara, so she would feel the pain that you did. Yet now after reading the previous comments, speaking with various recipients of the e-mail and after speaking wtih Xiomara, it seems to me that your plan has slightly backfired. You have affected the people around Xiomara with your actions, more than her. An e-mail that was an attack on her character, has resulted in an attack on your character. And now more people are concerned with whether or not what you did was just/moral/malicious/etc., rather than the actual content.
Your friends are calling her a "fucking idiot" and Yaz a "double chinned wonder", and when you've already stated that you're embarrassed about what happened and that you feel like you've wasted your time with her, statements like this also seem to reflect poorly on you. Now you've wasted your time on a "fucking idiot", instead of just "Xiomara".
Now that you are trying to move on and heal, perhaps it is best to spend a lot of time thinking on your own and not letting everyone's comments cloud your thoughts.
Your friends are calling her a "fucking idiot" and Yaz a "double chinned wonder", and when you've already stated that you're embarrassed about what happened and that you feel like you've wasted your time with her, statements like this also seem to reflect poorly on you. Now you've wasted your time on a "fucking idiot", instead of just "Xiomara".
Now that you are trying to move on and heal, perhaps it is best to spend a lot of time thinking on your own and not letting everyone's comments cloud your thoughts.
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