I screwed up royally, majorly, utterly, totally, incredibly BAD.

Oct 30, 2008 13:51

There are things in life that, when pressed to the point of extreme stressfulness, a person can go awry. And this past Tuesday, did just that. And can I tell you guys something?
That was the DUMBEST, STUPIDEST, most IDIOTIC thing I could have ever done. EVER. Period.Here I am, it's the year 2008, and I've been having the most amazing ( Read more... )

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radardog October 30 2008, 20:58:53 UTC
You need to clear your head in my opinion. Take a little bit of time and decide what you want more. Do you want Sam, or do you want to go to Nashville. I know that decision is hard as hell, but I don't see any way around it. It's Nashville or her. You can't have both.

Decide which one you want more and there's your answer.

Be careful though, don't let your emotions decide this. You need to think it through. This is breakup number two and it's because you are going through the ole emotional roller coaster. You want to go to Nashville when you have Sam, and when you don't your heart hurts and you would rather have her. So you get her back and then you want Nashville again.

If it helps at all I went through a similar problem when I came home from Florida. They offered me a permanent job working at Disney World. I had to decide between staying in Orlando with basically my dream job, or coming home and marrying Amanda. It was hard, but I thought it through and made my choice.

I'm not telling you the choice that I made is the one that you should make either, nobody can tell you that. It's a matter of priority for you. There's no wrong answer, and nobody is going to think your a jerk if you decide on Nashville. This is a big decision that will affect the rest of your life, and you have to make it for yourself.

Lastly, you know we're here if you need us man. Don't forget you aren't alone.

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P.S. radardog October 30 2008, 21:02:34 UTC
When you make up your mind you have to stick to it. That's why you need to think about it hard and long. Make your decision, and go all out in the way you choose. If you don't then you'll start regretting and that will hold you back. Choose your path and walk it.

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