no sex and the city
so it's been awhile and it's also been a very long week.
last wednesday Lindsay boyfriend of one year and seven months flew from his military base in north dakota to surprise her here in boston for her birthday. later on that day he precided to propose to her, which she said yes to. so me being oh so very alone and basically the very much third wheel while flowing the happy couple thru out boston all week made me think very much about a lot of things.
how exactly do we find the right person whether it be a boy or girl? sure the sappy version is a soulmate "the soul recignition of its counterpoint in another" or something like that. but really how do we find someone so good enough that not only do we crave to spend every minute of the day with them but that we then spend lots of money to tell that to our friends and family and then so enough decided that they should make a family of their own. how do you know when it's right?
but now stop a second and think, how can someone think about all of this when some of us *cough cough* have not even really had that many chances even wonder this at all? so after much thought i realized that i have absoultly no idea and i don't think people even those who already do know they've found the right one know at all.
that set aside i have one more idea brewing in my head. so i know a certain girl like lindsay who happens to be compact and has "manish" qualities. now this girl and lindsay have not only these two things in common but also that they have had mulitple relationships, whether successful or not, the point being is that they have had long term and mulitple relationships. so it's interesting to wonder how is it's that their relationships work so well. the main point being is that the girl in the relationship has a bit larger amount of masculine qualities throw in and the same reversed with their lovers boys. nothing is wrong with this at all rather actually the off beat balance of yin and yang these types of relationships are what make them work so well. it's something like brad pitt and angelina jolie, they balance out each other perfectly in their bodily mixes of male and female. this being said what about the girlie girls? what about those of us who are not compact, at the outdoors, do not play sports, and would rather go hungry then eat a piece of steak? may be this is the cheerlead and the football star syndrom. it might seem to perfect to actually work but it could, the very little amount of boyish qualities in the girl work well with the very little amount of girlish qualities in the boy. take any supermodel or actress mix them with their football or rockband husband and see what happens.
so where do fall into this mix, some of us might never really know.
last wednesday Lindsay boyfriend of one year and seven months flew from his military base in north dakota to surprise her here in boston for her birthday. later on that day he precided to propose to her, which she said yes to. so me being oh so very alone and basically the very much third wheel while flowing the happy couple thru out boston all week made me think very much about a lot of things.
how exactly do we find the right person whether it be a boy or girl? sure the sappy version is a soulmate "the soul recignition of its counterpoint in another" or something like that. but really how do we find someone so good enough that not only do we crave to spend every minute of the day with them but that we then spend lots of money to tell that to our friends and family and then so enough decided that they should make a family of their own. how do you know when it's right?
but now stop a second and think, how can someone think about all of this when some of us *cough cough* have not even really had that many chances even wonder this at all? so after much thought i realized that i have absoultly no idea and i don't think people even those who already do know they've found the right one know at all.
that set aside i have one more idea brewing in my head. so i know a certain girl like lindsay who happens to be compact and has "manish" qualities. now this girl and lindsay have not only these two things in common but also that they have had mulitple relationships, whether successful or not, the point being is that they have had long term and mulitple relationships. so it's interesting to wonder how is it's that their relationships work so well. the main point being is that the girl in the relationship has a bit larger amount of masculine qualities throw in and the same reversed with their lovers boys. nothing is wrong with this at all rather actually the off beat balance of yin and yang these types of relationships are what make them work so well. it's something like brad pitt and angelina jolie, they balance out each other perfectly in their bodily mixes of male and female. this being said what about the girlie girls? what about those of us who are not compact, at the outdoors, do not play sports, and would rather go hungry then eat a piece of steak? may be this is the cheerlead and the football star syndrom. it might seem to perfect to actually work but it could, the very little amount of boyish qualities in the girl work well with the very little amount of girlish qualities in the boy. take any supermodel or actress mix them with their football or rockband husband and see what happens.
so where do fall into this mix, some of us might never really know.