pseudo-philosophy
Is the true Self what one is, or what one wishes to be? And if the former is the case, then is it dishonest to try to change?
E.g. I am a sort of loud, blunt, and sometimes annoying person. I really don't like a lot of traits that I have when it comes to socialization. I would like to be quieter and more considerate of others.
Would it be a violation of my Self to pursue a transition to those more desirable traits? Would I lose friends because I act differently, even if I perceive those differences to be positive ones?
E.g. I am a sort of loud, blunt, and sometimes annoying person. I really don't like a lot of traits that I have when it comes to socialization. I would like to be quieter and more considerate of others.
Would it be a violation of my Self to pursue a transition to those more desirable traits? Would I lose friends because I act differently, even if I perceive those differences to be positive ones?