[Original Five Geek Social Fallacies]
Geek Social Fallacy #1: Ostracizers Are Evil
Geek Social Fallacy #2: Friends Accept Me As I Am
Geek Social Fallacy #3: Friendship Before All
Geek Social Fallacy #4: Friendship Is Transitive
Geek Social Fallacy #5: Friends Do Everything Together
And a #6: Anyone Who Doesn't Like Me Is Jealous

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All that drama is now entirely not my problem, at least until the cycle comes back to this point and it explodes everywhere in two to four months. Then there'll be pieces to pick up, because we don't want that sort of thing leaving metaphorical glass stuck in the metaphorical carpet, or metaphorical booze-stains everywhere ( Read more... )

Not that monogamous people can't learn them, but they're especially useful when you've stepped outside of the roles prescribed by society.

Talking about feelings, even/especially the feelings you don't want to be having. Talking with the person/people you're having the feeling about and then, rather than being smothered with 'But I didn't mean to ( Read more... )

I've had a crappy couple of years - getting broken by being sick + my workload + my relationship in my second year, being paranoid and suicidal due to my illness being undiagnosed and uninvestigated during my third year, the toxic living enviroment during my third year (I still have no clue exactly what was going on there, but none of us were happy ( Read more... )

Oh, two yogurts and half a sausage isn't actually enough food for a day, is it?

And yet... downstairs. Moving.

I am so, so grateful that the dramaplosion have not demolished anything that can't be repaired. That would be very bad, and entirely made of Do Not Want ( Read more... )

There was boozing! I drank too fast too soon and got wobbly legs, and there was drama, but aside from that it was a good night ( Read more... )