how do you know when someone "likes" you?

Dec 07, 2005 22:55

Often, when people show any kind of interest in me (it ain't all that frequent) I take it the same way - that they "like" me, but sometimes they must just like me, but I can't seem to tell the difference, which could get me into a lot of trouble ( Read more... )

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smugsmilz December 7 2005, 19:12:28 UTC
I think the fact a guy is asking you questions is a great sign. (dont mean that in a mean way about you).
I just mean, I find getting a man to ask questions is like squeezing blood from a stone-unless of course, they like you. :0)

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tairries_lover December 8 2005, 08:22:41 UTC
That's true! And even if he wasn't 'interested,' which I can't think he would be what with him being attached (except that apparently his girlfriend is really boring and grumpy, but that's just what I heard from some girls who may or may not be being bitchy), it still means he's interested enough to be my friend and that's always good. It's fine to fancy your friends, right? Tee hee.

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smugsmilz December 8 2005, 09:40:12 UTC
See, my philosphy while dating is-as long as he is not dead, married or gay, he is game. HAHAHAHAHA!
Sorry too much caffeine today.

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erichamm December 8 2005, 00:44:31 UTC
Hmm...while specific questions are always a good sign, I use them as small talk. Like you said "going somewhere nice?" is a hairdresser question. My most "meaningful" conversations would be those about art/music/whatever else, while, when I had little to say, I would resort to the other stuff about how long you are in town, etc. But that's just me.

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tairries_lover December 8 2005, 08:19:11 UTC
Yeah, that's what I thought, but we also have reallly 'big' conversations about art and literature and music, so I don't know what to think. If I was feeling nervous or something around someone I would do the whole just making conversation thing, but I would have thought that would be the first things we talked about rather than getting into really involved conversations first.

Perhaps I make him nervous?

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