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[taintxlight]

Hey guys. I got to say lately I've been rather retarded with Blogging. I'd start up a long post. Then later decide not to post it cause I felt it really didn't say anything. I went through this Four Times! So I chucked the old ones and thought I'd give you all a status update on my sense of self

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[ricekrispi]

I'm glad you're feeling better! But don't feel bad about being less social because, right now, I'm the same way too - always studying. A way to remedy that though is to just ask out one person after work or between classes and have a one-on-one hang out session with them. Doesn't have to be anything big! Plus you'll end up making up for it with big hang outs later!

[taintxlight]

After work for me is like 3 in the morning.

Haha. Yeah, my life is getting back on track though. lol. A good sign of that is that I'm not following a regular scheduled life anymore. And more strange coincidences started happening. Yup Yup.

LOL. After this week want to go ice skating? I'm so dieing to just go out and celebrate after exam week!

[ricekrispi]

Yes! Just give me a time and date.

[ricekrispi]

But about the surface personality and core personality, I feel like when you first meet someone they might tend to give you a feel for how they are in general; that's their "surface personality", as you would call it.

But then once you get to know the person their "core attributes" come out. I think they explain why the surface personality comes out, or what makes that person tick. Those things, I think, come out when you really get to know a person or been around them to realize their little quirks. I know that when I hang out with my high school friends they know more "Kirstisms" than my college ones. And Kevin and Ed even moreso. They've seen my core. At least that's how it comes out to me.

When I first speak to people though. I notice how they carry themselves as a person, like if they look me in the eyes, laugh, smile, what they laugh and smile about, how comfortable they are with me. And, as I'm sure we've talked about, you feel the connection between you and the person. Wavelength!

[taintxlight]

Soul Resonance! LOL <3

[ricekrispi]

Way to ignore what I wrote.

[taintxlight]

T-T 我真的对不起! It's just different for me, so I didn't really understand what you were saying. I read it over again and I think it makes some more sense this time. Like... the layers of the surface personality start peeling away after awhile revealing more of the core personality. Is that about right?

But have you ever just known that you and another person would make sense together as friends or anything else? Like I don't know. With some of my closer friends I feel like I just kind of felt a bond with them before I even really talked to them. And sometimes I'll describe people really well without really even knowing them. I'm just wondering why that is. Psych major? Intuition? Logistics? Who knows right?