...Unstressed (Dear Diary - response to "...Stressed")
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Just a short entry today. Because I haven't written in a while, nor have any of my 'friends' :(
So:
'Fox'? He is giving his kidney to his mom. We are happy that he can. We don't know how it will go though. And his job was stressed by this upcoming surgery...that's still true. Poor 'Fox'
DOMA (Defense of Marriage Act) - the decision on that is still pending. June. 'Fox' was talking about our wedding though, which is a good sign. I asked who he would invite - if he'd invite his sister. He said he was inviting our cat and the furby toy that he gave his neice. Those are his guests, apparently. :( Well, my secret thought is we'll have to have another wedding in ten years so he can invite his friends and 'family' that he's acquired over that time while living here (maybe).
Job? I have one. It's temp. but long-term temp. The other job that I'd been waiting for, they FINALLY told me a start date, though it's still somewhat undecided. Then, about four days ago, they asked me to re-apply. I was pretty angry, but I calmed down and sent them a polite decline, saying it was not quite worth the effort to apply again, when my temp job would probably hire me full time, and was quite nice (it is). He responded, saying it was just a formality, and was I sure? So now I need to answer again. :-/ I want to say 'no' without burning bridges. But anyway, hopefully I'm employed at this job until I leave for...
School! I made it! WOOT! It's not my top choice - actually my bottom choice, and it's gonna cost me. But with some finagling, I can possibly finish my education. I was so relieved! They told me last Thursday. I made sure to tell 'Fox' first, and then my best friends and then my family. That order. My friends can be sensitive.
Anyway, that means I'm telling you guys fourth. Fifth even, since I told my work today/yesterday, sorta. But not officially.
What else was precarious? My friends? Yeah, that's still precarious. Money too. I pushed back loan payments (again), because I'm poor, I expect moving expenses in three months, and I won't be paying during school anyway. Plus, I'm going to be purchasing a vehicle. Probably a http://www.topspeed.com/motorcycles/motorcycle-reviews/honda/2013-honda-pcx150-ar131947.html
It's just a scooter, but it's highway-fast. And not ugly.
And with it, I can move in with my sister and still get to work okay. I got the permit today (you need a permit for anything over a certain speed and/or engine size - 100cc I think.
I'm still pretty stressed. Always moving, always things to do (on top of work). I'm moving now because I moved into an apartment close to work - sublet - and, well...
Officially, it's to watch over my cat. Tardis does need it. But...
I need to write more.
Just a short entry today. Because I haven't written in a while, nor have any of my 'friends' :(
So:
'Fox'? He is giving his kidney to his mom. We are happy that he can. We don't know how it will go though. And his job was stressed by this upcoming surgery...that's still true. Poor 'Fox'
DOMA (Defense of Marriage Act) - the decision on that is still pending. June. 'Fox' was talking about our wedding though, which is a good sign. I asked who he would invite - if he'd invite his sister. He said he was inviting our cat and the furby toy that he gave his neice. Those are his guests, apparently. :( Well, my secret thought is we'll have to have another wedding in ten years so he can invite his friends and 'family' that he's acquired over that time while living here (maybe).
Job? I have one. It's temp. but long-term temp. The other job that I'd been waiting for, they FINALLY told me a start date, though it's still somewhat undecided. Then, about four days ago, they asked me to re-apply. I was pretty angry, but I calmed down and sent them a polite decline, saying it was not quite worth the effort to apply again, when my temp job would probably hire me full time, and was quite nice (it is). He responded, saying it was just a formality, and was I sure? So now I need to answer again. :-/ I want to say 'no' without burning bridges. But anyway, hopefully I'm employed at this job until I leave for...
School! I made it! WOOT! It's not my top choice - actually my bottom choice, and it's gonna cost me. But with some finagling, I can possibly finish my education. I was so relieved! They told me last Thursday. I made sure to tell 'Fox' first, and then my best friends and then my family. That order. My friends can be sensitive.
Anyway, that means I'm telling you guys fourth. Fifth even, since I told my work today/yesterday, sorta. But not officially.
What else was precarious? My friends? Yeah, that's still precarious. Money too. I pushed back loan payments (again), because I'm poor, I expect moving expenses in three months, and I won't be paying during school anyway. Plus, I'm going to be purchasing a vehicle. Probably a http://www.topspeed.com/motorcycles/motorcycle-reviews/honda/2013-honda-pcx150-ar131947.html
It's just a scooter, but it's highway-fast. And not ugly.
And with it, I can move in with my sister and still get to work okay. I got the permit today (you need a permit for anything over a certain speed and/or engine size - 100cc I think.
I'm still pretty stressed. Always moving, always things to do (on top of work). I'm moving now because I moved into an apartment close to work - sublet - and, well...
Officially, it's to watch over my cat. Tardis does need it. But...
I need to write more.