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was recommended to me to read the book 'attached'.
its haunting how effective its been.
chapter 5, was just too close to home
Decided that in the beginning I was avoidant (not me/protective of self) and as I shifted to my normal style it may have been to late. In the beginning she was secure... And my avoidance drove the wedge. When it came to a head I was had shifted anxious self but she shifted to avoidant, especially with the shut she had going on outside the relationship