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Oct 05, 2004 13:47

GIRLS SUCK!!!! I'm so tired of hearing about drama drama drama; there's too much in the world without having to be surrounded by it day in and day out. I need my boy fix, guys don't have this stupid drama stuff about who likes who, and blah ba blah ba blah. It's driving me insane!!! See what I like about you guys is that there isn't all the talking going on behind peoples backs, stuff is handled up front, you deal with junk with the people it needs to be handled with (if that makes sense), instead of bringing it to everyone else except that person. I know in some ways this might sound hypocritical, because there are some people that i talk to about my problems, but they are a select few, and if something is really bothering me about someone, i talk to them about it. What bothers me the most, is that every couple weeks it is a new person that peeps are having a problem with. And it's not like one persone doesn't get along with this other person; but instead the whole floor suddenly is upset with one person, and then the next week or week after it's a different person that everyone is talking about. I feel really bad for them, and i'm just waiting or it to be my turn, cause eventually (if it keeps following this pattern) it's gotta get around to everyone. And then we're gonna run outa people, unless we recycle. But it sucks!! I feel bad, cause at lunch today, they were once again discussing the new "chosen one" and i just through my hands up, and was like, " that's it, no more, lets talk about something else." I think they thought i was kidding, but i wasn't. I had just been sitting there for at least five minutes listening, and it was driving me carazay-i wanted to throw out comments to everyone else (but seeing as how i daze out so much, i didn't have enough to go around), but that would've been really mean, and the wrong way of handling it. . .so, that's my bitching. NO MORE DRAMA, IF ANYONE HAS DRAMA THAT DOESN'T CONCERN THEM, DON'T DISCUSS IT, IT'S NOT YOUR BUSINESS, PEOPLE GET HURT!!!! I mean seriously, who the hell do people think they are, judging others, we all make mistakes (myself included, to an extreme), and i'd like to think that when i make one people will be understanding, and not mondoly judgemental and harsh- i dunno, it's not my business, it's someone else's. What makes me the angriest is how, people talk without knowing the whole story-during my five minute steaming period, i spoke up twice to fill people in on the sections of there verdict that they were missing-to show them, how much of a two way street it was. ARGGG!!
So what have we learned here today?
1. Don't talk about stuff that isn't your business
2. Don't talk about others without knowing what actually happened
3. Don't handle stuff by bad mouthing others, talk to people directly
4. Stop the gossip, cause you won't like it when it's about you
5. Don't talk to katie about your drama, especially when it's not actually yours (this is not to say that if you have a genuine problem don't talk to me, cause i would like to be there for all of you, but. . .yeah, whatev)

OK, THE END, EL FIN :)
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