cyber sex
okay i didn't comment on cortnye's post because i wanted to make sure this was seen by everyone.
i don't think cyber sex is bad. i think it is a way to release tension if you can't release it any other way. i don't think it is cheating either, because you don't actually know the person you are cybering and if you do know them you are doing it under the cover of RPing. cybering is a little bit of privacy place that is actually no one elses business but yours and the other person you are cybering with. me?, personally.....i love it!!!!!!! i like phone sex also. and yes, jon knows i have phone and cyber sex, but he doesn't ask me about it. i have my secrets and he has his....keeps our relationship strong. if people tell all their secrets ...what's left in the mystery of life and love. see the problem people have in my eyes is that they start confusing computer world with the real world....to me computers let us live a fantasy out and not hurt our real lives. unless someone starts believing that the 2 different worlds are the same 1.
no i don't have phone sex or cyber my husband....just friends and old BFs. cybering to me is like foreplay...wooohooo! can't wait for jon to come home...hehehe! cybering also gives people other ideas to try with the one they really love. and no ideas people have are not wrong, because sometimes the same old same old gets boring. so why not use a idea to spice your life up....i do. and i have been practicing sex for many, many ,many years....and i figured out something....I LOVE SEX!!!!!!!!!!! in all forms.(cyber,real and phone) yes, i own a variety of toys, not because of poor sex but because i like to enhance my sexual life. i think there is nothing wrong with a woman or man owning a few toys. my man even buys toys for me.
i know this was gross to here from a mother in the group. but cybering is fun and didn't we all have descussions about controlling each other. lets just say all of you couldn't talk online, to your BF or GF on the phone,see them or your friends...becasue someone said you couldn't. that's called grounded or being with someone that is so obsessed with controlling another persons life....sounds like slavery has made a come back. to control someone is to enslave every aspect of their life. last i heard america was a free country...don't know for how long, but they still say we are the land of the free. so the choices someone makes are theirs, not for the rest of us to judge.
SO I SAY TO ALL YOU UP AND COMING CYBER AND PHONE FREAKS....CARRY ON THE GOOD CYBER TIMES!!!!!
i don't think cyber sex is bad. i think it is a way to release tension if you can't release it any other way. i don't think it is cheating either, because you don't actually know the person you are cybering and if you do know them you are doing it under the cover of RPing. cybering is a little bit of privacy place that is actually no one elses business but yours and the other person you are cybering with. me?, personally.....i love it!!!!!!! i like phone sex also. and yes, jon knows i have phone and cyber sex, but he doesn't ask me about it. i have my secrets and he has his....keeps our relationship strong. if people tell all their secrets ...what's left in the mystery of life and love. see the problem people have in my eyes is that they start confusing computer world with the real world....to me computers let us live a fantasy out and not hurt our real lives. unless someone starts believing that the 2 different worlds are the same 1.
no i don't have phone sex or cyber my husband....just friends and old BFs. cybering to me is like foreplay...wooohooo! can't wait for jon to come home...hehehe! cybering also gives people other ideas to try with the one they really love. and no ideas people have are not wrong, because sometimes the same old same old gets boring. so why not use a idea to spice your life up....i do. and i have been practicing sex for many, many ,many years....and i figured out something....I LOVE SEX!!!!!!!!!!! in all forms.(cyber,real and phone) yes, i own a variety of toys, not because of poor sex but because i like to enhance my sexual life. i think there is nothing wrong with a woman or man owning a few toys. my man even buys toys for me.
i know this was gross to here from a mother in the group. but cybering is fun and didn't we all have descussions about controlling each other. lets just say all of you couldn't talk online, to your BF or GF on the phone,see them or your friends...becasue someone said you couldn't. that's called grounded or being with someone that is so obsessed with controlling another persons life....sounds like slavery has made a come back. to control someone is to enslave every aspect of their life. last i heard america was a free country...don't know for how long, but they still say we are the land of the free. so the choices someone makes are theirs, not for the rest of us to judge.
SO I SAY TO ALL YOU UP AND COMING CYBER AND PHONE FREAKS....CARRY ON THE GOOD CYBER TIMES!!!!!