Something to think about... (to my f-list)

Nov 01, 2009 18:51

People come in our lives for a reason, either for a while or forever. When you know this you know how to treat everyone too. When someone is in our lives for a certain reason, usually they are there to help us out because we need them in some way. Maybe helping us out in a hardship, giving us guidance or support, be there for us naturally, spiritually or mentally. The seem godsend and they usually are. They are there exactly because we need them.

Then, without us doing something wrong and even though we might get hurt the relationship will be over. One of the two will end it. Somehow this person will go away from us.

What we need to understand is that our need was fulfilled, our desire was granted, so this person's job is done. Our prayer has been answered and now we have to move on.

When someone is in our lives for a certain amount of time it means it is time for us to grow up, to share and learn. That person might bring us a peaceful experience or make us laugh. They will teach us something we didn't know so far and give us joy. We will learn to do something new and be really happy we met them. Even though this person stayed in our lives just for a certain amount of time, he/she did something great for us.

When someone stays in our lives forever, he/she gives us a life lesson. This person will teach us the things we need to base our life on. What we have to do is accept this lesson, love this person and apply everything they have taught us in our lives.

They say that love is blind while friendship is based on intuition.

Either for a certain reason, either for a certain time or for a lifetime, thank you for giving me the chance to learn from you. Thank you for being part of my life.

friends are love

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