Why can't people just let me be happy!? -.-

[sunkist8907]

Okay so, on the way to work today I brought up the fact that me and Sam wanted to meet up at Buckland Hills Mall on Thurdsday night to my dad. What a big fucking mistake that was. He goes off about "This kid could be a pedophile, he only has one thing on his mind, he probably just wants you for sex!" I was like "Dad you do not know him. I've talked

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katie katie bo batie banna fanno fo fatie...Katie!

[blugrassgurrl]

listen missy, from an older lady who you may or may not feel like giving your attention to. i've only met ya a few times, but the read i got off you wasn't that of a moron. i thought you were kinda neato and funny, and plus you know i dig your hair. well anyways, to the important stuff. i remember being 16, and when i met a boy, i ran away to NY with him. everyone was against me being with him out there since we had only known each other for about 2 months when i left. but i was completely head over heels for him, and didn't wanna be without him. so, even though i might be a little crazier than you, i know what you're feeling. and i understand how upset you are that no one else "gets it". that's the thing though, everyone else loves you too! you can't forget that just cuz you met a boy that makes you feel all those nifty things that your friends and family can't. your friends love you in a different way and they are trying to be there for you! don't block em out, or get upset with them, hear them out cuz they might say something that makes sense if you can hear them with an open mind. even if you disagree, don't get mad, know that they are trying to look out for you. not baby you, but that is what friends are there for! to make sure you don't screw up so bad you can't come back from it! soooo....even though it might suck to compromise, if you really think this Sam boy is all he's cracked up to be, you should have no problem introducing him to your family and friends. the mall is not a good place for first meeting, it's too easy to think that leaving alone with him would be a good idea. or for you to disappear without any of the shopping crazed psychos noticing. and no one wants little red headed katie to disappear. meet him in a place where those people who care can have your back. or introduce him to your dad! that way, if he really isn't a rapist or whatever, you'll know and be fine. wait til you meet him to decide about the love thing, think how easy it is to pretend do be things you may not be with the anonymous internet and less but still anonymous phone calls. i'm not going to say you're wrong, i'm going to say be careful. people love you besides him, and no one wants to see you get hurt or worse. okay so, maybe i'll see you again sometime and good luck with the boy! i hope everything works out perfectly. Jamie xoxo