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how could a person cheat on someone , let alone someone that loves them dearly? I can understand not desiring them anymore , or craving some new excitement, but then why not let them go before you hurt them. Tell them the truth and let the healing begin
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At first I didn't have anything to say to this. At first I thought, I have no answer because I haven't cheated on anyone and no one has cheated on me.
But that's not true. I have been cheated on and it feels like shit.
She did it on the day before my birthday 3 years ago and then had the fucking nerve to give me a birthday present.
I didn't find out until later.
It was hard to deal with. Much anger.
Don't blame yourself. Let them go. They are dead to you now.
Once again, I thought it would be better for you to be single until you sorted out your own issues, found a direction in life and then learnt to protect yourself emotionally.
See, the mistake that he made was not actually getting to know you.
I think I know you to a certain extent (as much as the internet will allow) and if I was ever lucky enough to be your boyfriend, I would be faithful and commited. That's the way I am.
I mean, look at your photos. Look in the mirror. HE FUCKED UP. He made the biggest mistake of his life. Let him live with it now.
Don't go back to him, it'll only cause more and more pain.
I know that you are doing this to cover a lifetime of pain, but I said before that sometimes it's better to feel this pain raw. No drugs to hide it, no sex, no starvation.
Sit in the pain. Investigate it. Know it. What is the nature of this pain?
Once you know it, you can let it go.
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