We Broke Up

Jan 24, 2023 01:57

I finally ended things with Dan. It was about a month long process on my end. It started when he implied I was easily replaceable on December 12th when I had Covid. I was willing to work on things until he went on that rant about New Years Eve. It just pissed me off so fucking much when he had been so confusing and unreliable about scheduling to spend time with me. I don't care if you have six other options of places to go to New Years parties. I am your...whatever we were, you should want to spend it with me. If you can, that is. That was on December 28th. He seemed to regret it the next day and the next one after that, but it was too little to late. I hung out with Todd on New Years Eve. When I was driving home from the Longhouse he called me, and wanted to say happy new year and he hoped we would be able to spend more time together in 2023. The best part, he was on his way to work. He didn't even do any of the things that he had mentioned in his rant.

We never spent any time together intentionally in 2023. It was always a total accident when we sat together those two days. Then he was too tired on a Monday and flaked on the next Wednesday. I just couldn't take it anymore. There's only so much I can tolerate, and I had reached my pain threshold. Thank the Gods for that.

recovery, longhouse, relationships, love

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