FYI, F-listers!

[still_ciircee]

If you ever tell me that you are 'trying to die' and that you have 'OD'd on a bunch of pain pills', I will call the cops so fast that they will be at your door before you can reconsider and make yourself throw up

Comments

[aegistheia]

I am sorry to hear that aquaintances of yours think impending suicide is a matter that can be left alone. At least now they know that if they want to commit suicide without intervention, you won't be notified? (I hope?)

I realize this is a touchy topic. It's just-- this exact situation happened to my friend and I recently, and... well, it was really bad. Nobody died, bless their souls, and the yelling wasn't nearly so loud, but it was still really bad.

I hope you and your husband will feel better soon.

[anoudegozaruna]

You are a good friend. And I completely support you in this. I've dealt with this subject recently in my life, both personal and professional, so I know this is not a subject to be wishy-washy on. I hope everything goes well for the both of you, as well as Ed's friend.

[tangiblewhimsy]

Agreed. I have been through to many actual suicides in my life to have any tolerance for suicide threats. It's not funny, it's not a good way to get attention, it's not a solution. Be angry at me all you want, but next time tell it to someone who doesn't care. Because someone who doesn't care won't act.

[flange5]

I am so sorry you and Ed have had to go through this, both the suicide drama and the behavior after DDD: To say something so horrifying, which could so devastate your friends (much less going through with it) and to expect no repercussions? If you make that public, you no longer have control over what happens next--other people will react (if a) they care and b) they think there is even a chance the threat is plausible, because god, who wants to think it wasn't and be wrong?), and when they react, they may not do so in the way you want.

*hugs*

This sounds just awful. You totally did the right thing, and I'm sorry that you and Ed are now dealing with the aftermath.

[hungry_worm]

I agree, you did the absolutely right thing. (And it's always easy to complain afterwards that XYZ wasn't necessary... you've got every right to be aggravated after getting the reaction you described.)