The Hardest Thing
After 100 years...I was able to post this...Good thing LJ is fixed now....^-^ YIPPPPPPPPPIIIIIIEEEEE!
And so, let me continue singing it… *clears throat*
It’s the hardest thing I’ll ever have to do…
To look you in the eye and tell you I don’t love you.
It’s the hardest thing I’ll ever have to lie…
To show no emotions when you start to cry.
It’s the hardest thing I’ll ever have to do…
To turn around and walk away,
Pretending I don’t love you.
Awww… How I miss this song... "The Hardest Thing" by 98 Degrees. I remember I always hear this song every morning whenever I am in the school bus and I am on the way to school. :P I think I was a pre-schooler, grade 1 or grade 2 back then...hihihiihihi the good ol' days!
Well my topic for today is connected to this song's message. And I chose to write about this because many friends of mine are experiencing this, strangely enough....there are many of them...O.o
I won't forget what my friend said to me before, he is my friend who is also like a brother to me. He said that sometimes, there will come to your life the moment when you'll have to say "I don't love you." to someone you love the most and say "I love you." to the one you didn't really choose.
You'll have to go away from the one you treasure the most and be with someone you don't love...For what? He said, sometimes, doing so will be the best for the both of you..
The best for the both of you...
NONSENSE!!!! >.<
Now, this situation is different from when you let go of someone because he/she is happy with someone else. If you really love that person, you'll do this. But again, I am against with denying your true feelings to his/her and to yourself. That only shows evidence of bitterness and hatred in your heart, which is yeah, not good.
But let's go back to that of my friend's words. What good would that do to you?
"This is the worst."
Nope, nuh-uhh...worse than this, what if the other person loves you? This is a total disaster >.< for heaven's sake! It's like everything is simple, you're just the one making it complicated! You love him, she loves you...then that's that! You know what to do! Simple!
The human feelings shouldn't be taken for granted. This could make or break one's entire life!
Wouldn't it be the best if the two of you throw away those masks, be true and just love each other? There's nothing more rewarding than being loved by the one you love with your whole life.
Love is just between the two of you no matter how distant you are from one another. It involves just the two of you, not with your friends, enemies or even families. There's not a single requirement that you need to be this or that...no matter who you are as long as you love each other.
And with this, I am not telling that you should beat destiny and be together even if you shouldn't be. Again, it's a case-to-case scenario, of course. All I am saying is thou shan't deceive when it comes to one's inner feelings, you're just lying to yourself as you're lying to the other person.
Whether he/she loves you or not. Tell it! What's important is you are true and sincere.
And so, let me continue singing it… *clears throat*
It’s the hardest thing I’ll ever have to do…
To look you in the eye and tell you I don’t love you.
It’s the hardest thing I’ll ever have to lie…
To show no emotions when you start to cry.
It’s the hardest thing I’ll ever have to do…
To turn around and walk away,
Pretending I don’t love you.
Awww… How I miss this song... "The Hardest Thing" by 98 Degrees. I remember I always hear this song every morning whenever I am in the school bus and I am on the way to school. :P I think I was a pre-schooler, grade 1 or grade 2 back then...hihihiihihi the good ol' days!
Well my topic for today is connected to this song's message. And I chose to write about this because many friends of mine are experiencing this, strangely enough....there are many of them...O.o
I won't forget what my friend said to me before, he is my friend who is also like a brother to me. He said that sometimes, there will come to your life the moment when you'll have to say "I don't love you." to someone you love the most and say "I love you." to the one you didn't really choose.
You'll have to go away from the one you treasure the most and be with someone you don't love...For what? He said, sometimes, doing so will be the best for the both of you..
The best for the both of you...
NONSENSE!!!! >.<
Now, this situation is different from when you let go of someone because he/she is happy with someone else. If you really love that person, you'll do this. But again, I am against with denying your true feelings to his/her and to yourself. That only shows evidence of bitterness and hatred in your heart, which is yeah, not good.
But let's go back to that of my friend's words. What good would that do to you?
"This is the worst."
Nope, nuh-uhh...worse than this, what if the other person loves you? This is a total disaster >.< for heaven's sake! It's like everything is simple, you're just the one making it complicated! You love him, she loves you...then that's that! You know what to do! Simple!
The human feelings shouldn't be taken for granted. This could make or break one's entire life!
Wouldn't it be the best if the two of you throw away those masks, be true and just love each other? There's nothing more rewarding than being loved by the one you love with your whole life.
Love is just between the two of you no matter how distant you are from one another. It involves just the two of you, not with your friends, enemies or even families. There's not a single requirement that you need to be this or that...no matter who you are as long as you love each other.
And with this, I am not telling that you should beat destiny and be together even if you shouldn't be. Again, it's a case-to-case scenario, of course. All I am saying is thou shan't deceive when it comes to one's inner feelings, you're just lying to yourself as you're lying to the other person.
Whether he/she loves you or not. Tell it! What's important is you are true and sincere.