I am sure you are feeling all kinds of different emotions right now - I have heard that pregnancy really gets the hormones flowing.
Patrick is out of town all week for business. I trust him with all my heart, but that doesn't stop me from asking him how many girls are in his training group and who will be going to dinner with him tonight. Crazy, silly questions:) I am just curious like that:)
I can't believe Greg actually admitted that she was hot - Patrick would do that too. I always tell him to say no for my benefit:) As if I want to know that a girl he is working with is hot, whatever.
You have an excuse right now for Greg to take care of you - I am sure he understands. Just make sure to give him lots of hugs when he gets home.
Patrick too:( It is so weird being at home by myself - I find that I start talking to myself:) It's so boring, especially today with the snow outside. Everyone was outside playing and I had no one to play with:( Boo!
I know exactly how you feel about DH travelling. Mine does a lot of travel too and I always get weird about it. I totally trust him, but it bugs me that other females travel with him and go to fun places. :( As long as that trust is there though, and you know its just you being insecure, I'm sure he understands. Hang in there! I'm sure being pregnant doesn't help with feeling emotional!
I'm glad to know that other wives feel the same way about this, and it's not just me. I seriously thought I was the only one who felt this way. Thanks for chiming in. :)
You're feeling kind of yuck right now, so it's natural to worry that your husband is seeing you in the same way that you feel. Don't worry - he loves you no matter what and I'm sure he is happy to take care of you. You'll be feeling better soon. I promise!
You're so right. I am feeling gross and I hate that he finds other girls 'hot' when I'm feeling so 'yuck' as you said. I hope you're right....I can't do this much longer!
Hormones are crazy things huh? I'm sure you've got a little cabin fever too with the weather being so crappy and not working today. It does suck when your husband is out of town, I agree, but I'm sure he's just thinking that it's no big deal to tell you that a "hot" girl is in his class... He'll be home soon, right?
Yeah, it's just a couple days. I'm just feeling sad and sorry for myself! I'm wishing it was summer and I was feeling good and feeling somewhat attractive....oh well, what can a girl do?
My close friend went through EXACTLY what you are going through during her entire pregnancy. I think it's good that you can recognize it and move forward to try and prevent it. You really are one step ahead of the game if you even realize you are acting jealously. Think of all the other women who don't even have that clarity. Have you considered sending him an email with the information you wrote in paragraph #3? I know Jim's heart would melt if I opened up to him like that, he loves that stuff. Keep his mind on the sweet, vulnerable wife he has waiting for him back at home, who is carrying his child and cares so much about him. :-)
And just to offer another perspective on the comments about the bachelorette... I think he meant that as a compliment, about being real. Pretty sure, anyhow. I know it would still drive me bonkers, too. :-)
I told him last night that I knew I was being a brat and I was sorry. That i know he has put up with a lot of crap from me. Ugh. I'm kind of over it today, but I do appreciate you sharing your thoughts.
And I think you're right about being 'real'. This is so true. He's told me before that he thinks I look 'hottest' (his words, not mine!) when I'm wearing jeans and a baseball cap. How cute is he?! :)
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I am sure you are feeling all kinds of different emotions right now - I have heard that pregnancy really gets the hormones flowing.
Patrick is out of town all week for business. I trust him with all my heart, but that doesn't stop me from asking him how many girls are in his training group and who will be going to dinner with him tonight. Crazy, silly questions:) I am just curious like that:)
I can't believe Greg actually admitted that she was hot - Patrick would do that too. I always tell him to say no for my benefit:) As if I want to know that a girl he is working with is hot, whatever.
You have an excuse right now for Greg to take care of you - I am sure he understands. Just make sure to give him lots of hugs when he gets home.
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I hope you're right....I can't do this much longer!
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And just to offer another perspective on the comments about the bachelorette... I think he meant that as a compliment, about being real. Pretty sure, anyhow. I know it would still drive me bonkers, too. :-)
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And I think you're right about being 'real'. This is so true. He's told me before that he thinks I look 'hottest' (his words, not mine!) when I'm wearing jeans and a baseball cap. How cute is he?! :)
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