Relationship phobia

[stef_c]

I just developed a new phobia. Relationship phobia.

When you listen to enough problems on heartbreak, you get really really scared. I'm not saying I don't want to hear people coming up to tell me about their problems. If I can be there for someone, good. I'm there.

What I'm saying is...

...I don't think I want a relationship right now.

In my

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bumped here..

[anonymous]

dun think u know me and actually I'm not sure who u really are also, heh, i just bumped into this blog. Kelvin here anyway (www.xanga.com/spikedkelvin). =). Well, I like to look at heartbreaks as a way to know that I'm alive. I mean, hey, relationships WILL bring us heartbreaks I guess as no man is perfect. But I always feel like a heartbreak is worth it because its a chance to take my relationship with that person to another level. I find that a friendship is way superficial when its just sunshine, rainbow and happy thots. Its just good on the surface and a relationship deepens when we can open up and be comfortable to each other and not need to put up a facade anymore. But syikes, when that happens, its often that we get more tactless, heh. But hey, that just gives us a chance to overcome those heartbreaks with each other and make our relationships more meaningful right? Gosh, it'd be freaky if my girlfriend next time NEVER disappoints me. Heh. =). Cheer up yar! We're not perfect but God is, look to Him always in the center of our relationships and hey, with God in the center of it, foundations always firm through the heartbreaks eh? =). God Bless.