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starrynight

Absolutely, positively pregnant

Mar 06, 2014 20:15

I had my first OB appointment. It consisted of a physical exam (listening to lungs and heart), blood pressure and weight check, a pelvic exam, a glucose and protein dip test, and going over my medications and illnesses ( Read more... )

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hachiemachie March 9 2014, 23:35:39 UTC

I don't even know what to say about this, bb.

starrynight March 10 2014, 00:06:22 UTC

It's crazy! I still can't believe it. But it doesn't seem like such a bad thing. It's not like I'm 16 and pregnant, and I've had practice from my niece and nephew.

hachiemachie March 10 2014, 00:15:17 UTC

This is all just very concerning because he refused to use condoms when hormonal BC isn't a good idea for you because of your conditions, you're gonna have to go off your psych meds, and, oh, he's an asshole who has displayed any number of emotionally abusive behaviors over the years and now wants you to have an abortion.

Sorry, everybody can flame the shit out of me, but this is all a really bad idea. Have you looked into adoption?

starrynight March 10 2014, 00:18:45 UTC

I haven't looked into adoption. That my be an idea to consider. I laid down the law and said I am not getting an abortion and he hasn't brought it up since.

All of my meds are actually safe except for one, which is the blood pressure meds and I am going to see if my doctor is willing to switch me to something else.

hachiemachie March 10 2014, 00:23:33 UTC

Well, you do what you think is right. You're the only one who can decide that. I suppose I sound like a jerk, but I'm just being honest. *points to icon*

starrynight March 10 2014, 00:28:29 UTC

Naaah, you don't sound like a jerk at all!

It's all good, bb.

I suppose the plus side is that my parents and sister are willing to help out. So I won't be totally on my own.

hachiemachie March 10 2014, 00:33:09 UTC

Just ignore me! I'm genetically programmed to immediately think of everything that could go wrong with even the most mundane things...and this is not necessarily mundane.

I do wish you the best of luck with all of this, whatever comes of it. I only freak out because I care. lol

starrynight March 10 2014, 00:35:53 UTC

Psssh, I've been freaking out over all the bad stuff that could happen. I think it's hard not to, tbh.

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