I know how you feel. I'm usually really nice to everyone i can be, and try and help my friends whenever they need it, no matter what i may be in the middle of. I even try and give them advice whenever they need it (even if it backfires sometimes for the first week and i have to deal with them yelling at me saying i screwed things up, just for them to come back the next week and say that in the end my advice actually helped them alot). You have to be true to yourself, and everyone else. I try not to sugar coat anything, even though it may hurt them, sometimes its better for them to know the truth of how you feel, then perhaps find out someday that you really thought about them differently and then they get angry then.
Even though you might think you're hurting them, you actually may be helping them more than you may think in the end by being truthful. I also think though, that every person deep down knows what they should do, they just don't always act on it. You just have to look deep down into your own soul and find the answer. Cause friends advice is always good, but sometimes you have to make the decision on your own. I've come to find that out myself.
Even though you might think you're hurting them, you actually may be helping them more than you may think in the end by being truthful. I also think though, that every person deep down knows what they should do, they just don't always act on it. You just have to look deep down into your own soul and find the answer. Cause friends advice is always good, but sometimes you have to make the decision on your own. I've come to find that out myself.
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