The Wife.
Last several posts sound horrible. 'What about your wife' is a phrase I have heard a lot of lately. I recently realized how this all started.
Months ago. Probably last Fall even. Not sure how it came up but I mentioned that I had women trying to take me home all the time. She made some kind of "Oh, really?" comment. Like she didn't believe it. I told her about the girl that got angry with me because I wouldn't take her to my office and have my way with her. I was being mean because she had needs. Never seen this girl before, never seen her again. I told her about the customers that ask for things that they don't need, just to talk to me. Gets obvious some time before the third or fourth random question. Told her about the girl that insisted that I talk to her about pricing. Kept telling her I am maintenance and don't do that, but ended up doing it anyway. She was persistent. At the time I wasn't sure if she wanted to talk to me, or just really didn't want to talk to the other guy.
After telling her all this... she started treating me better. After years of being treated like junk. Being treated like some guy that lives in the same house and occasionally ends up in the same bed at the same time. Someone to clean up after her all the time. I was getting treated like a guy she was competing for. Like she was lucky to have me. Like someone she wanted to be with.
As time went on I told her more things about women at work. Pretty much everything I had been writing about. Kept getting treated better. Guess, at some point I started flirting with girls just for attention. I get the attention, I get confidence, I feel awesome. The Wife treats me better every time.
Now that I figured out why I have been doing it, all the fun has been sucked out of it. Don't really feel like it as much. I hope that answers anyone's possible "what about your wife?" questions that they were afraid to ask.
Months ago. Probably last Fall even. Not sure how it came up but I mentioned that I had women trying to take me home all the time. She made some kind of "Oh, really?" comment. Like she didn't believe it. I told her about the girl that got angry with me because I wouldn't take her to my office and have my way with her. I was being mean because she had needs. Never seen this girl before, never seen her again. I told her about the customers that ask for things that they don't need, just to talk to me. Gets obvious some time before the third or fourth random question. Told her about the girl that insisted that I talk to her about pricing. Kept telling her I am maintenance and don't do that, but ended up doing it anyway. She was persistent. At the time I wasn't sure if she wanted to talk to me, or just really didn't want to talk to the other guy.
After telling her all this... she started treating me better. After years of being treated like junk. Being treated like some guy that lives in the same house and occasionally ends up in the same bed at the same time. Someone to clean up after her all the time. I was getting treated like a guy she was competing for. Like she was lucky to have me. Like someone she wanted to be with.
As time went on I told her more things about women at work. Pretty much everything I had been writing about. Kept getting treated better. Guess, at some point I started flirting with girls just for attention. I get the attention, I get confidence, I feel awesome. The Wife treats me better every time.
Now that I figured out why I have been doing it, all the fun has been sucked out of it. Don't really feel like it as much. I hope that answers anyone's possible "what about your wife?" questions that they were afraid to ask.