[Hey Splendor. There's a cat in your library, swatting at the pages of a random book in the children's section. Why the children's section? Because children's books have lots of pictures, which Sissel hopes will make the words in them easier to understand. So far, it's not helping at all. But because the weight of his seal is annoying when peering
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[He rubs at his nose for a moment, because he doesn't really want to admit about how much time he tends to spend flicking through books.]
You got somethin' specific you want to know?
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[He pauses, trying to make sure he has the word right.]
...Can you explain what a "fiancee" is?
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"Married", "engaged"... I guess there's a lot of words out there I don't really understand.
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Married is like, two people, they love each other a lot an' want to spend the rest of their lives together. Don't always work out that long, though, or you ain't as happy as you thought, so you separate. Maybe divorce.
[Way to dive straight into the complicated part, Bambi. He scratches at his jaw, drags the topic back.]
Marryin' though, there's a big thing, called a weddin', an' you wear a ring, to show you're married, an' sometimes the chick gets the guy's last name, if she wants. Engaged is when you're plannin' on gettin' married. The girl gets a ring for that too, sometimes.
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So marriage is a big deal because you love someone and want to be with them for the rest of your life, and you get engaged to do that, and when you're engaged, you're a fiancee...
[He's slowly figuring this out.]
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[He nods, vaguely proud that he actually managed to explain it.]
I mean, sometimes the people don't love each other, they just want the other person's money, or somethin' 'bout the law an' stuff. But those people're lying, really, 'cause it's meant to be for love.
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You said love and marriage are things that are supposed to make people happy, but you make it sound like it can make them sad, too.
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Sometimes... it just ain't right. Like you ain't the right people for each other, or marriage ain't right for you, even if you love each other. An' sometimes the love goes, or somethin' changes-- everythin' changes, you know? 'Specially people. An' they can get stupid, hurt each other, make mistakes, things they can't fix.
But some of 'em get stuck, 'cause they're married, an' they stay even though it hurts, or it hurts 'cause they stay. Or they split up, 'cause of mistakes, or one of 'em ain't happy anymore, an' that hurts, too.
[He pauses, thinks that does all sound way too sad, and really maybe he shouldn't be rambling on so much. He doesn't normally talk this much, normally keeps all his thoughts to himself, but Sissel had asked, and he was just trying to answer as best he could.]But it can be happy. There's people around, they been married for like fifty years, ( ... )
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