That's what I want

[spirited_lizard]

I'm thinking about getting a credit card on my own, finally. My brother already got one a few weeks ago, but I don't want to use his, I want my own. I'm a big girl. hehe Well, I have thought about it for quite some time. I never thought that I would need one, but I guess, nowadays, there's almost nothing you can't do without one. And the main

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[caledonia]

If you decide to meet this guy, do NOT go on your own. He may seem nice online but could be a freaking weirdo.

Also, never use a debit card online. If someone gets your details, they can clear out your bank account. Nearly happened to me last year so I only ever use my credit card online.

[raynedanser]

If you decide to meet this guy, do NOT go on your own. He may seem nice online but could be a freaking weirdo.

Agreed and do it somewhere very visible, very public - like a cafe. Do not go anywhere private with him.

[spirited_lizard]

Oh no, that I would never do for a first meeting. Maybe I'll just say that I'm at a cafe with a friend and if he wants to join, he's welcome, or something. And if he refuses, I have my answer, too. ;)

[raynedanser]

Honestly, I would do that for the first SEVERAL meetings. And if it's possible there, I'd have a background check run on him. Here, if we pay a small fee to the local state government, we can find out someone's criminal background. Isn't it sad it's come to that these days?

[spirited_lizard]

Wow, I didn't know that you could do that these days!

[spirited_lizard]

I already thought about meeting him for coffee or something and taking a friend with me. I also kind of thought of what I could say, like "I'll be there with a friend, come or don't...". And if he doesn't come, I can kinda think of what kind of guy he is. ;)