I'm going to pimp this post because it's just an awesome idea, and it really opens you mind.
After reading this post, I sometimes wonder if we aren't all a bit overly sensitive when it comes to our favorites on BTVS. For example, it never occurred to me that Xander fans thought Buffy and friends were thoughtless towards him.. (thinks of Xander sleeping outside in the snow in AMENDS while Buffy is crying over Angel.....hmmmmm)
http://lusciousxander.livejournal.com/32108.html