to me, it just sounds like your friend is jealous of you, and may be seeing how happy you two are together and thinking that's how she could've been. so, she's trying to break y'all up or something. I talk to my friends really late at times,and there's nothing going on between us, we're just friends so i bet she's just taking the facts, and making them sound worse. maybe he's always said how awesome she is or how much he misses her, and just now you're taking notice of it with everything going on.
and he may still have feeings for her. When you have major feelings for someone, you always still have that mild attraction once your crush has past. but, that doesn't mean anything will happen. I just see it as a jealous friend. But, you should talk to him about it. he should understand. it's not that you're accusing him of cheating, just saythat your friend has been telling you some stuff and you're just wondering how much of it is true. say something like "_____ said you guys talked really late last night, what were you talking about?" or like "___says she still thinks you still have a thing for her..." and just see what he says. just toss the idea around, no need to be up front really. unless something major occurs...
you hit the nail right on the head I think. That's exactly how I feel...like, maybe she finally sees that he has boyfriend potential because he's obviously making me happy, and maybe shes thinking "i wish i had that"...but..you're right..thanks for the advice! :)
I talk to my friends really late at times,and there's nothing going on between us, we're just friends so i bet she's just taking the facts, and making them sound worse.
maybe he's always said how awesome she is or how much he misses her, and just now you're taking notice of it with everything going on.
and he may still have feeings for her. When you have major feelings for someone, you always still have that mild attraction once your crush has past. but, that doesn't mean anything will happen.
I just see it as a jealous friend.
But, you should talk to him about it. he should understand. it's not that you're accusing him of cheating, just saythat your friend has been telling you some stuff and you're just wondering how much of it is true.
say something like "_____ said you guys talked really late last night, what were you talking about?" or like "___says she still thinks you still have a thing for her..." and just see what he says. just toss the idea around, no need to be up front really. unless something major occurs...
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