Your situation is tough! Sounds like you have feelings for Jeremy you can't shake off... but also want to keep your options open. If Jeremy's made it clear you aren't dating then he should be ok with you seeing other guys, right? It may make him a bit jealous if he finds out, which he may since he works with the guy. Just be upfront and forward with guys about how you feel and don't try to hide stuff, a lot of girls do that and it ended up getting them in a mess
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You're right. I should be upfront and honest. The last thing I want is for this to turn out badly.
I'm hoping that spending time with both of them will help me make a decision... I hope it's as easy for me as it was for you! :) But I dont want a relationship so I guess that's the only difference. I do want to be able to choose between the 2 of them though, and I hope that maybe by kissing them each I can pick, lol. At least it'll be fun to figure out ;)
"I dont even know what it is about Jeremy that I like so much. He doesn't pay as much attention to me as he used toNot that I'm an expert....but the phrase "you want what you can't have" comes to mind
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Melissa, I love you, lol. You always give such fantastic advice!
We really are alike.. I think that a lot when I'm reading your posts. We're both (NOT) dating someone at work who wont committ, so I know you know how frustrating that situation is. Yet neither of us have thrown in the towel and walked away.
I think, well I know, you're right. Jeremy cant be jealous.. well he shouldn't be jealous. And I know I should just tell him, instead of hiding it. I think I just needed that smach in the face from someone else to do it, lol.
Thank you again. I really appreciate your advice :D *hugs* And remember: maybe once and awhile you should take your own advice ;)
I think you should go out with Justin just to try him out. I mean if you and Jeremy have no commitment (which it soulds like you dont and he has made that clear) then I dont see why there would be a problem. You and Jeremy arent dating exclusively and if he gets all pissed that you go out with someone else that is his problem. If he doesnt want to date you exclusively then he shouldnt try to keep you from dating others.
I would just tell him about it. And if he gets mad then discuss exactly what your relationship is. If he is mad you are dating others then his feelings for you are obviously stronger than he is willing to admit. I hope it all works out for you!
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I'm hoping that spending time with both of them will help me make a decision... I hope it's as easy for me as it was for you! :) But I dont want a relationship so I guess that's the only difference. I do want to be able to choose between the 2 of them though, and I hope that maybe by kissing them each I can pick, lol. At least it'll be fun to figure out ;)
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We really are alike.. I think that a lot when I'm reading your posts. We're both (NOT) dating someone at work who wont committ, so I know you know how frustrating that situation is. Yet neither of us have thrown in the towel and walked away.
I think, well I know, you're right. Jeremy cant be jealous.. well he shouldn't be jealous. And I know I should just tell him, instead of hiding it. I think I just needed that smach in the face from someone else to do it, lol.
Thank you again. I really appreciate your advice :D *hugs* And remember: maybe once and awhile you should take your own advice ;)
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I would just tell him about it. And if he gets mad then discuss exactly what your relationship is. If he is mad you are dating others then his feelings for you are obviously stronger than he is willing to admit. I hope it all works out for you!
Oh...and feel better. *hugs*
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