This is the second half of my post-con writing, following a con report style post that's not specific to my experience ( Read more... )

I get asked this pretty often. Sometimes the person doing the asking is someone I'm already close to, and possibly intimate with, and they are asking as a prelude to play. Sometimes they are a complete stranger who sees me doing rope play in public, or has seen photos of my work online. The answers I give are usually very similar, possibly ( Read more... )