do i smell a cheater??
I think one of the guys I'm involved with has a girlfriend. It's a pretty strong feeling so I'm going to flat out ask him next time I see him. And if he does, I'm never speaking to him again. I don't like being some guys booty call. I have enough of that sort of thing, and I'm happy with those situations that are already in place. This is a new guy, just in the last month or so. I met him one night out and we totally hit it off and made out all night. I was really excited because I thought he was cute and tall and nice, but then he didn't call me for a month. After two weeks I usually just give up on a guy, but when he called me out of the blue, I was so excited to see him again, I didn't even stop to think about him having a girlfriend. Anyways, we spent another night together then he had me take him home at 7:30 in the morning on Saturday, well not home actually, I took him to his car.
So none of this really sets off a red-girlfriend-alert-flag with me until I think about a few things that happened last Friday. Get a load of this and tell me I'm wrong...
1. We had to go to my place because his apartment was "off limits" he gave me this whole spiel about how his roommates girlfriend is in town and they want the apartment to themselves. Sound fishy? I know
2. I'm not positive this really happened, it could have just been a dream, but I think when we were making out, he asked me to stop scratching him on his back (I hadn't realized I was doing it) with my nails. But if this really did happen, then I can see no explanation for it other than that he has a girlfriend. I'm pretty sure I'm not just making excuses this time.
If he really does have a girlfriend I will be so annoyed, I think that's just really rude and I would never want to date a guy who was a cheater. How in the world can I trust him now? If I'm wrong and he doesn't have a girlfriend, I'm gonna look like some jealous freak! I really need to be more alert about things.
So none of this really sets off a red-girlfriend-alert-flag with me until I think about a few things that happened last Friday. Get a load of this and tell me I'm wrong...
1. We had to go to my place because his apartment was "off limits" he gave me this whole spiel about how his roommates girlfriend is in town and they want the apartment to themselves. Sound fishy? I know
2. I'm not positive this really happened, it could have just been a dream, but I think when we were making out, he asked me to stop scratching him on his back (I hadn't realized I was doing it) with my nails. But if this really did happen, then I can see no explanation for it other than that he has a girlfriend. I'm pretty sure I'm not just making excuses this time.
If he really does have a girlfriend I will be so annoyed, I think that's just really rude and I would never want to date a guy who was a cheater. How in the world can I trust him now? If I'm wrong and he doesn't have a girlfriend, I'm gonna look like some jealous freak! I really need to be more alert about things.