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we just had a long conversation and i'm not sure what the final outcome is going to be because we still have a lot of talking to do but we're not broken up. he's expecting me to adjust 100% to him without him changing anything. in his mind i'm supposed to take his word that he'll never cheat on me, and in return he'll "do whatever he wants to do." i think he's too young to understand that in an adult relationship and that you have to give as much as you want to get. i need him to adjust to me the same amount i adjust to him. he's being too hard-headed and too stuck in his ways to understand what i truly need from him. he says he hears me, but i don't think he's really getting it. i'm not asking him to stop flirting all together because i know he can't do that (he needs the attention), i'm just asking him to not let it get too far... once it turns into text messages and e-mails it's too far. in my mind if he truly loves me he'll do everything he can to make me happy... even if that means cutting one stupid little girl that he met three weeks ago out of his life! we'll see.