Martians and Venetians
Ok, it's no mystery that the opposite sex is confusing. Oh and Hitch isn't a real person. You can do the best you can, but ultimately you've just got to grow up and realize that your opposite is a mystery. Men will never know what women want and women should just stop giving a damn what men want.
We're all playing games. I wonder how much easier or different relationships would be if we just went on sans joue. Where's the fun in that? Still, we play heart and mind games all day long and then wonder why we have what we do. I think it's the whole concept of interpreting that gets me. There is never really going to be any sure fire way of knowing what your guy/girl is thinking. So more often than not, it is useless to try deciphering what he/she means by some random innocent action.
So I'm not saying advice is useless, or attention is futile. I'm just saying getting carried away in the every day movements of your beau/belle is all of the above. In the end, who really cares what color socks he's wearing and what that means. There's no insight there people! I guess that kind of thing varies from person to person, and relationship to relationship. Because I'm apt to say that even forgetting a silly anniversary is ok just because if you have the guy, then you've already won. Don't be greedy. But seriously, why stress yourself out over the little things? So they haven't called you in the last five minutes, don't jump to conclusions. You don't know what that person is doing every moment of their lives, and nor should you. So if that sounds logical (and it should...) then maybe there's hope for your crazy compulsions.
Maybe I can see things this way because I refuse to become one of those people again. I know I can be a hypocrite, it's human nature - we all are, but I am still perfectly capable of recognizing such things. I do believe in omens, from time to time - mostly when it's convenient for me! But I will not read into strange mannerisms that in the end make no difference either way. I think it could just be better that way. I'm going to give it a try.
** life's not too short, just too impatient. **
Je Cherche Un Homme:
Il n'a pas besoin d'etre un milliardaire
Qu'il soit beau, non ca m'est egale
Il n'a pas besoin d'etre un grand lumiere
star du cinema, ni prince royal
Je cherche un homme, un homme, un homme
Qu'il s'appelle Pierre, ou Paul, ou Tom
Pourvu qu'il donne son maximum
Je cherche un homme, un homme, un homme
Doesn't have to be prince or movie-star
A Texas oilman, or a French marquis
Doesn't have to be handsome as a picture
An ordinary guy is allright with me
--Eartha Kitt--
We're all playing games. I wonder how much easier or different relationships would be if we just went on sans joue. Where's the fun in that? Still, we play heart and mind games all day long and then wonder why we have what we do. I think it's the whole concept of interpreting that gets me. There is never really going to be any sure fire way of knowing what your guy/girl is thinking. So more often than not, it is useless to try deciphering what he/she means by some random innocent action.
So I'm not saying advice is useless, or attention is futile. I'm just saying getting carried away in the every day movements of your beau/belle is all of the above. In the end, who really cares what color socks he's wearing and what that means. There's no insight there people! I guess that kind of thing varies from person to person, and relationship to relationship. Because I'm apt to say that even forgetting a silly anniversary is ok just because if you have the guy, then you've already won. Don't be greedy. But seriously, why stress yourself out over the little things? So they haven't called you in the last five minutes, don't jump to conclusions. You don't know what that person is doing every moment of their lives, and nor should you. So if that sounds logical (and it should...) then maybe there's hope for your crazy compulsions.
Maybe I can see things this way because I refuse to become one of those people again. I know I can be a hypocrite, it's human nature - we all are, but I am still perfectly capable of recognizing such things. I do believe in omens, from time to time - mostly when it's convenient for me! But I will not read into strange mannerisms that in the end make no difference either way. I think it could just be better that way. I'm going to give it a try.
** life's not too short, just too impatient. **
Je Cherche Un Homme:
Il n'a pas besoin d'etre un milliardaire
Qu'il soit beau, non ca m'est egale
Il n'a pas besoin d'etre un grand lumiere
star du cinema, ni prince royal
Je cherche un homme, un homme, un homme
Qu'il s'appelle Pierre, ou Paul, ou Tom
Pourvu qu'il donne son maximum
Je cherche un homme, un homme, un homme
Doesn't have to be prince or movie-star
A Texas oilman, or a French marquis
Doesn't have to be handsome as a picture
An ordinary guy is allright with me
--Eartha Kitt--